Although people are rational and wise, they can distinguish right from wrong and good fortune when they are awake, they are human beings after all, and they have human nature. When they are lucky, they will inevitably be complacent. They are often blinded by their momentary complacency, and may even put themselves in a situation where they are unable to extricate themselves.
But a person with "scheming" knows that when his life is in a state of success, he must not forget himself and never show his sense of success in front of those who are at a low point at this time.
so that you can not hurt people and be injured. If you are proud of yourself, you will fall down easily and you will fall miserably.
Examples of extreme happiness bringing sorrow are always common. Therefore, when you are proud, remember to remind yourself to keep your mind clear.
You have been very lucky recently. Do you often feel complacent? If so, you have to learn the skills of cultivation: please suppress your desire to over-show yourself, be more modest, and show off less.
Treat the glory of the past as a life experience, and you cannot get more from it, so let it go and welcome your next glory.
Things in the world are like clouds, changing rapidly, but the changes in the world are not unruly, but are reversed when the extreme is over, and it goes back and forth. " Zhouyi ? re-hexagram ? "The Book of the Book of the Book of the Book of the Book of Heaven and Earth" says: "If you see the heart of heaven and earth!" It also says: "The sun is bright, and the moon is full, and the food is eaten."
Chinese people get spiritual enlightenment from the natural changes that have been repeated: "There is no flat or dam, and everything will never go back." Laozi summarized it without any troubles: " is the movement of Tao ."
Life changes are like water flowing, and things will decline when they are prosperous, and things will turn back. Especially when weighing the gains and losses, be sure to stop when you are in moderation and try to stop when you see the best.
As long as you are not a god or a ghost, an ordinary person’s life cannot always be proud. The most glorious and wonderful times of life are the shortest. "No one is good for a thousand days, and no flowers are good for a hundred days."
is like playing cards. A person cannot always succeed. After a good deck of cards, it is often the beginning of bad cards. Therefore, the biggest winner is the winner when you see the best.
This is the same in the world, and the same is true for human feelings. When interacting with others, whether it is a confidant of the same sex or a friend of the opposite sex, you must have a mood to stop at your own pace.
The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, which can avoid the ending of losing power and dispersing profits. At the same time, friendship can only be seen in plainness.
The more inseparable a friend is, the more likely he is to turn against him. Therefore, the ancients warned: "If you are deeply grateful, you should retreat first, and you can rest when you are proud."
Even if you are loving couples, you will be old and weak, you will have a day when your love is old and weak. Northern Song The so-called "If the love between two people is long, how can it last forever?" is not only a psychological comfort to the separation between the couple in Lao Yan, but also a reminder for the awakening of the couple who stay together all day long.
