The changes in our psychology and thoughts are not for no reason. Some changes are because of experience, some changes are because of thinking, and some changes are because of our own exploration and understanding.
As we grow up and continue our life journey, we will leave many things in our hearts, which are not good, so painful and happy, want to forget, and want to remember them all the time.
Along the way, some have become complicated, some have become simple, and some have fallen into confusion and at a loss. At the same time, some consciousness habits have also emerged.
Instinctive conscious reactions and instinctive inner reactions will be reflected one by one when we continue to experience the journey of life.
does not say good or bad, does not say right or wrong, but only says that when you experience it, don’t accidentally get lost and don’t lose yourself.
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Emotionally rich Cancer people always have emotions and emotions that they cannot control themselves. Sometimes this thing is like some of our habits or words and deeds, and they are involuntarily.
People with rich emotions attach great importance to emotional bonds, and this kind of attention will be as uncontrollable as an instinct.
We divide this matter into two aspects. The rich side of emotion is the keen emotional touch, which gives Cancer people very strong emotional feeling and perception abilities.
This emotional perception and sensitivity will make Cancers born with a rich empathy.
It is like a gift from God.
On the other hand, the keen emotional touch also makes Cancer people particularly sensitive in emotional relationships, and frequently think about some bad emotions and bad things that may not have happened.
This kind of idea and random thought will break Cancer's original psychological balance and thought balance, and its emotions will naturally fluctuate and change.
So when these things happen, when Cancer's instinct to protect themselves is activated, they react to protecting themselves. either retreats or reveals their pliers, which will become sharp.
This is a logic for Cancer to protect itself. If you add Cancer's growth process, summary and thinking after the process, and consciousness and habits after the process.
Think about the Cancer in front of you, the Cancer around you, his psychological state and some conscious habits.
In fact, we really have to talk about it. Cancer is not so timid and not so afraid to bear some harm.
But protecting one's instinct will overshadow everything.
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It’s like there is an apple on the table in front of you who want to eat it, but if you want to get the apple, you may get the needle next to the apple. Should you go and get it or not?
Cancer basically won’t take it when encountering such a thing. If it is compared to protecting itself from harm, the latter is safer.
So I often say a point of view:
When Cancer and what decision you want to make, once they start hesitating, the results are often negative.
We often say that "one mistake can lead to wisdom". Cancer is too typical in this matter.
Cancers have a good memory. They can remember why they were injured last time and what was the result.
What you do may be hurt again. When these thoughts and thinking become a habit, Cancer's appearance seems a little feminine and timid.
may be from an objective perspective. Some things may have good results. If we don’t try, we will miss the opportunity. In Cancer’s own opinion, protecting ourselves is still the most important thing.
The reason why Cancer's memory is good is directly related to their keen sense of touch. When Cancer begins to be keen and starts to think randomly.
This thing itself will strengthen people's memory.
If Cancer has tried some, and the final result is not good, then do you think he will not remember the pain?
Cancer is not fire sign , nor is it as brave as Scorpio, who is also a water sign.
So when Cancer encounters something that can be dangerous, their first reaction is to retreat.
is actually not allowed to be Cancer. After all, those experiences during their growth are like photos, partly imprinted in their minds and partly imprinted in their hearts.
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Every time, every sharpness not only protects one's instinct, but also basically has had "conceived and simulation" or similar experiences.
For example, let’s give an example. Cancer found that his friend whispered to another friend and looked at him from time to time. What do you think he would think?
Cancer found that his partner had called and closed the door and went out to answer the phone. The noise of closing the door was quite loud. What do you think he would think?
Cancer sees his friend giving gifts to others, the gift is more expensive. What do you think he will think?
When you fall into these situations, Cancer's heart is involuntarily, and his emotions are involuntarily, and he begins to imagine and starts to think randomly.
However, Cancer's cowardice and passiveness in emotional relationships and interpersonal relationships are not innate, but:
depends on whether he has confidence and a sense of security.
If they don’t have those things, they will instinctively place some expectations or ideas of security on a certain person or something.
The heart has followed. Do you think he can avoid being affected by those people and things?
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For Cancers who have experienced a lot, they may believe in their sixth sense .
But if you believe too much in your sixth sense, it is also a sense of insecurity in itself.
Cancer's good may not be that difficult to get, but it is not easy to keep the good of Cancer, quite difficult.
especially when you ignore, despise, and do not pay attention to Cancer's evasive and passive behaviors.
Unlike Gemini, Cancer needs a lot of things, and it is better to have everything in mind. Of course,
requires a lot, which does not mean that you need everything. This means degree and range.
If you can recognize the Cancer around you with a comprehensive perspective and mind, instead of just standing at a few points to recognize it, then this will be a good start.
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