In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", there is a person named Zhang Song . He is a very talented person, and his greatest ability is to be able to remember it. In Yang Xiu , I only read " Meng De's new book " and memorized it thoroughly. Yizhou Mu Liu Zhang Want to connect with him Cao Cao Liu sent Zhang Song to contact him. Cao Cao saw that he was ugly, so he didn't treat him well and asked someone to beat him out. When Zhang Song was angry, he gave the map of Shu to Liu Bei and helped Liu Bei seize Yizhou. Zhang Song was a little ugly, "the forehead is pointed, the head is pointed, the nose is crooked and the teeth are exposed." He is indeed a bit sorry, but he is still a local official at least. Unfortunately, Cao Cao used bean buns and as dry food, and did not use the village chief as a cadre.
US President Lincoln Once interviewed a new employee, he did not accept the candidate. When the staff asked him the reason, he said: I don’t like his appearance! The staff asked the president without understanding: “Is it his fault that a person is born to look bad?” Lincoln replied: “A person’s face before the age of 35 is decided by his parents, but his face after the age of 35 should be decided by himself. A person must be responsible for his appearance after the age of 35.”
As the saying goes, “Face is born from the heart.” When I was young, a person's appearance was related to genetic factors. However, when a person reaches middle age, his character, mind, and attitude towards others will affect his appearance. People with broad minds often have a good face, while people with gentle temperament have a gentle face. People with rough personality always have a fierce look on their faces, while those with narrow minds have frown and their faces are not right. We often encounter a person who is 5-10 years younger than his actual age, and that must be because she has a simple, kind and easy-going heart. This is a projection of long-term mood and behavior on the face, so appearance also indicates the person's future destiny.
A person is actually like a book. Appearance is the cover, and knowledge, knowledge, cultivation and temperament are the content of the book. The cover is given by parents, and the rest depends on your own efforts to enrich the content of the book. Just like some books have gorgeous covers, but the content is shallow or even vulgar, and they will soon be abandoned. Some people have the same elegant cover and content; some people have the same vulgar cover and content. Some people have inconspicuous covers but their content is extremely exciting; some people have inconspicuous appearances, but their content is unsightly.
appearance can be gradually changed, and beautiful appearance will exude unique charm from the inside out. Any blessing has its inevitable cause. A beautiful face comes from a gentle and kind temperament. An ugly person is not a sin, an ugly heart is a sin. Only by constantly improving one's own mind and shaping one's own nature, and allowing the energy of kindness, open-mindedness, elegance, perseverance, wisdom and humor to continuously enrich one's heart, can your appearance shine with the light of human nature.
