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This is an era where people value "appearance" but not their connotation.
Everyone regards appearance as particularly important. There are also some people who have plastic surgery everywhere in order to be more beautiful, which can affect their health at the least, and lose their lives at the worst.
appearance is originally the case of "body, hair, parents" , there is no need to care too much. Why are modern people crazy about "appearance"?
Because everyone has good face and doesn’t want others to look down on themselves. At the same time, under the influence of the Internet, "appearance first" has become the norm, and those who look average will be disliked.
For example, looking for a partner, some people want to find someone who is particularly beautiful or handsome. For example, when looking for friends, some people think that others are good-looking and their hearts will not be bad.
There are problems like the above ideas. In this world, 99% of people have ordinary appearances. Only those 1% of people have outstanding appearance. Therefore, we don’t need to waste our time on appearance.
What's more, from a realistic perspective, a person with excessive appearance and appearance may have a worse fate than the fate of an ordinary person. This has been the case since ancient times.
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For people's appearance, Professor Zeng Shiqiang said that it is a good thing to look ordinary. If you look too prominent, this blessing will leave you. Even if you look for a partner, it’s the same. Just find someone who looks like an ordinary person, otherwise it’s very troublesome.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang's words contain two questions. Why is it a good thing to be ordinary? Why is it better to find someone who looks ordinary?
Let’s first solve the first problem.
If a person is too prominent, he will face the result of "the tree is raised in the forest and the wind will destroy it." Others look ordinary, and if you are very beautiful, others will "start" you.
You should know that it is terrible to use and shameful.
is like what we often call "beauty", and few people have had a good ending since ancient times. We can see this point in by looking at the "Four Beauties".
Yue Guo was given to King Wu Fuchai by King Yue and Fan Li . Later, Goujian was restored to the country. He felt that Xi Shi was ominous, so he directly gave her "shenhu".
html When a person becomes a gift and plaything for others, this is the real sadness.
Diao Chan during the Three Kingdoms period was even more unlucky. She was given to Dong Zhuo by Wang Yun just to provoke the relationship between Dong Zhuo and Lu Bu . Later, Lu Bu died and Diao Chan disappeared. Some people say she was attracted to Cao Cao , and some people say she died in the war...
Tang Dynasty Yang Yuhuan , because of her extraordinary beauty, she was attracted to Tang Xuanzong Li Longji. Not long after, the Anshi Rebellion broke out in , and Li Longji fled to Sichuan with Yang Yuhuan. , who knew that the mutiny was in the middle of the march, Yang Yuhuan was hanged at Mawei Post by the rebels.
The four beauties, they sink fish and goose, and they are ashamed of flowers. Why don’t they have such a beautiful appearance? Because all the beauty of has to pay a price.
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Your beauty seems to be a good thing, but it is actually the beginning of unfortunateness.
so-called "beauty is weak". In fact, it is not that Hongyan chooses to be weak, but that others don’t let them go.In this way, if they have no choice, they can only be at the mercy of others.
In the workplace, what kind of female employees are the most dangerous? There is no doubt that beautiful female employees can easily become targets that others covet. Because "unspoken rules of the workplace" is like this.
Why is the secretary next to the boss so beautiful? Or why is the female secretary who goes out to dinner with her boss and is beautiful? Everything is obvious.
In addition, in the capital game, why are beautiful people pushed to the forefront? will be popular among the public because of the beauty of these people.
Once it is popular with others, it will be more dangerous. Because you have become famous, others know you, and more people hate you, so it will be easier when others praise you.
All the "beauties" that have been pushed out, once their image collapses, they will easily be disgraced and abandoned. You should know that beauty requires people to pay the price.
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Speaking of this, we should understand why Professor Zeng Shiqiang believes that when looking for a partner, we should find someone with an ordinary appearance. It's so beautiful that you can't keep it. Things like
are actually easy to understand.
First of all, if others have more outstanding beauty, she has more choices. At this time, unless you are very rich, you are labeled, which is the inevitable result.
Secondly, people are restless. This kind of restlessness is not only her problem, but also others' problems. A beautiful female anchor with a lot of private messages from a certain voice, you can't be guarded against.
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Many people will say that women will be unfortunate if they look too good. Will there be problems if a man looks too good? The principles of
are similar. Whether it is a man or a woman, if you look more prominent, you will be targeted. Either a stable life is disturbed by twists and turns, or a peaceful life becomes chaotic.
You should know that people are too jealous and will be disgusted by being pure. Some parts of you are too prominent, others will be jealous of you and even design to frame you. You are as pure as a fairy, and there will be dirty people coming to you. And you can't hide.
So, just look ordinary. Peace and peace are worth a thousand gold.
text/Shushan Youlu
