In this new era of rapid changes, life not only appears colorful, but people's mental outlook has also undergone tremendous changes. However, sometimes inner cultivation may not keep up with external changes. After all, appearance is often innate, and connotation requires long-term cultivation.
In life, girls are not only sweet but also salty. If "sweet" refers to the outside, then "salty" is a kind of character and an internal external presentation.
Undoubtedly, girls who can be salty or sweet often have greater charm in life, but this era is not only beautiful for girls. In addition to the traditional sense of masculinity, some boys are also called "little breasts", and this title is particularly common in "sister-brother love".
Among the twelve zodiac signs, Leo often gives people a feeling of enthusiasm and cheerfulness. She always seems proactive and sharp in front of life, and has a strong sense of confidence, just like a glowing sun, exuding a unique personal charm.
In this era, love often likes to be the first person, and people always care about their first impressions. In my impression, Leo's focus on appearance is also among the forefront of the twelve zodiac signs. It does not mean that other zodiac signs do not care about appearance, but most of them are not as persistent as Leo.
Take Taurus who also pays attention to appearance and Libra for example. Taurus can often start a love happily when moved, while Libra who likes refinedism often has a very realistic side.
However, Leo often performs differently. What she wants is a kind of pure love, but this kind of love sometimes comes from superficial appearance. Once Leo develops a strong interest and favorable feeling for you, holding hands with her will often appear faster.
To put it bluntly, Leo likes to go with the will. She has a very stubborn trait in front of love. If she doesn’t feel good about a person, even if the other party does more things for her, it will be difficult for her to be moved. This is somewhat similar to Scorpio, and she cannot force her to be in front of love.
Moreover, Leo is always full of control in love, but her mentality of wanting to control the other person is often different from Scorpio. Scorpio may want to control it because he loses confidence in you, while Leo seems very simple. She is not worried that you will like others, but just wants to express that she has such rights.
Xiaoli is a Leo who has such a mysterious and confident personality. Her love experience is quite small, but several ex-boyfriends all have one common feature: they are handsome and younger than her.
In love, Xiaoli always shows the unique strength of Leo girls. She is like a high-ranking queen, who likes to say the same thing in front of her lover, and she points to the east and dares not go west.
The reason why Xiaoli likes "sister-brother relationship" is mainly because she likes herself in this state. She always feels that she can guide others, even plan her life for the other person, and can express herself in the most comfortable state.
Although Xiaoli's several loves were a very pure relationship, it was precisely because of this age difference and the other party was handsome that her competitors always emerged one after another, but her boyfriend's performance could not satisfy her.
In such an environment, if the boyfriend can handle the relationship between the opposite sex more mature and firm, and let each other's relationship be in a relatively stable state, then Xiaoli will not slash her love again and again.
Sometimes, I feel like Xiaoli is training someone else's "good boyfriend". In fact, her external conditions are also good, but because of this approach of taking appearance first in love, she almost loses her own advantages in love, which makes her hurt again and again, and appreciates the beauty and pain of love again and again.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with paying attention to appearance in the face of love. It is just like everyone likes beautiful things, but sometimes, you also need a ability to control your own heart and the other person's handsome face.
From my perspective, Xiaoli's ex-boyfriends often did nothing wrong, but they were not very mature at all. Faced with the emerging "little fans", they may not be confused, but they often don't know how to deal with it so that their lovers will not lose their sense of security.
When Leo feels that you are becoming more and more uncontrollable in the face of love, she may not necessarily feel that you and others will surpass the boundaries, but she will definitely feel that you are no longer so important. She must feel your strong love for her in the face of love, otherwise she will definitely not want it.
However, although Leo really dares to love and hate, and can even heal the scar and forget the pain, Xiaoli sometimes wonders, why do you need such an experience? It seems that it is really unnecessary!
