Psychology: Most women do not have the reason to leave the singles and do not turn on these 3 switches.
Women love with their ears, while men use their eyes to love if they have love. ——Shakespeare
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Love has been intertwined with joy and sorrow since ancient times. In the process of loving each other, there is joy, happiness, satisfaction, love, and the opposite. There is sorrow, there is quarrel, there is sadness. The previous marriage was the order of the parents, and the matchmaker’s words were not at their own discretion. Most of the children of the emperor’s family would sacrifice their lives because of the family.
There was no word for divorce in the previous society. Divorce is a shame for a family, so even if it is unhappy, it will slowly run in. Even if it is unhappy, there is no opportunity to choose. Women can be said to be very miserable, but they can also be said to be Very happy. At least one couple for a lifetime, without the pain and trouble caused by divorce.
Marriage is a lifelong matter. Once you choose, you cannot start from scratch. Women in today's era can be said to be afraid of marriage and will not choose themselves because of a wrong marriage. Strong3strong Women's minds are becoming more and more open. They don't want to combine, trial marriages, singles, single parents, and gradually appear in our field of vision.
In the current society, the marriage law is gradually opening up, and the divorce rate is gradually rising. Many female friends are afraid of entering the wrong marriage and choose to wait blindly. Wait until the person who is right for you, until the person who can blend with your soul, now there are more and more singles, even if the parents are too anxious, women still choose to wait.
There is also a kind of woman, there are many high-quality men around, but still feel that these men are not worthy of themselves,So we procrastinated and waited to meet a better person, , but we have forgotten one thing. There is attractiveness between people. Attraction refers to what kind of person you are. What kind of people will be attracted, and the attracted people will also be a class of people.
So in real life, how do you find your own attractiveness, how can you successfully get out of the singles and realize your dream of love? It's actually very simple, just turn on these three switches.
1. Maintain a normal attitude towards life
We often have an idea that we want to walk out of the ordinary life, go to the big city, and live a wonderful life of our own. Once you step into the big city In the city, you will find that life is not easy. If you want to stay in a big city, even if you are outstanding and beautiful, it is still not easy to find .
So I started to think of other ways to stay. I wanted to find a local man who had a car and a house so that he could stay smoothly. But at this time you have neglected your abilities and failed to stick to your original intention. People's life thinking is still limited. When you go against your original intention for your own purposes, you will definitely lose your most original things.
Once a woman sacrifices herself for her own benefit, she will definitely be swayed by others. The most important thing in life is to learn to leave, learn to give up appropriately, give up the bad things in your heart, and keep your eyes on the long-term, love will come as promised.
2. A woman who learns to show weakness is really smart
Learning to show weakness is a compulsory course for women. Every woman wants to be top in life, but they forget that true love should be They help each other and understand each other. Learn to show weakness to get the real love from a man. Sometimes you win the truth but always lose love.
Men like weak women. Tsundere women have the best life. There is a certain reason. Strong women will make men lose their sense of security, and women who know how to show weakness will make men have a desire to protect and enhance their sense of worth, and a man can only satisfy your desires by realizing his sense of worth.
3. Learn to use the "Franklin effect"
Some girls are independent and generous, and they can do everything by themselves without anyone’s help. This phenomenon will make some boys gradually stay away from you. , The reason is simple, you protect yourself too well without any opportunity for others to participate.
The Franklin effect talks about the fact that if you like someone, let him help you . The process of helping you is the process of warming up, and this kind of help, if it lasts for a period of time, will become a habit, and finally find the common ground between two people and warm up the feelings of each other.
Concluding remarks:
Many women’s mate selection criteria are perfect men. It can be seen that such girls may be single for a lifetime. Simply put, everyone in this world has shortcomings, but when you When you find that the advantages of this person outweigh the disadvantages, you can basically be called a good man. The main characteristic of a good man must be excellent quality.
If a woman wants to understand a truth, she must first ensure her own excellence, so as to attract the attention of a good man. Choosing the other half depends first on quality, and secondly, having a mature mind and a good heart for you. That's enough.
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