has a private message from a treasure mother,
found that the baby is almost 2 years old and is seriously afraid of life. For example,
sees a stranger, there are only two states,
either crying or hiding. Is
a social disorder? Very worried ~
don't worry!
This is the baby's second recognition period.
is the result of ever-improving self-awareness.
began to produce "guilt" and "shy",
appeared "avoidant" contact with unfamiliar environments or people.
Why is only TA seriously afraid of living? Z2z
mothers don’t have to worry too much,
is sensitive by nature, and
"dodge" type children are more quiet,
are sensitive and self-protective;
is sympathetic and does not like to fight or curse.
This situation will gradually improve with growth and guidance. How to guide
?
1, pay attention to the establishment of a sense of security
to establish a sense of security in an unfamiliar environment, you need the baby's most secure family to accompany, Bao parents and moms can act as the children's "guide" and accompany the children to explore easily and happily!
is in the community, looking at flowers and plants, and playing on the slides;
is in the park, climbing the stone steps to see the fish;
is in the supermarket, looking at your favorite fruits and vegetables.
2, adopt a step-by-step approach
Some children are unwilling to greet them. Parents will directly reprimand the children. Don't do this. This will only increase the recognition of birth. The correct way to do
is, "Hi! Our baby is shy! Mom tells them hi for you. Next time it's your turn!"
can resolve the embarrassment and encourage children to start with a simple greeting, smile and nod, be friendly. Myself!
can also find 2 fixed and familiar playmates for children, so that they can get a lot of practice opportunities.
3. Use shopping to let babies deal with strangers.
turns dealing with strangers into "games". When children are shopping, they will learn how to ask and ask strangers for help. Such a purposeful social approach is more acceptable to children.
For example:
ask the child to ask the supermarket shopping guide aunt, "Where is Peppa Pig’s cookies placed?"
asks the child to ask where is the toy floor in the mall?
Parenting Message:
treasure parents must give them a full understanding, especially for babies who are sensitive by nature, do not push them out in a hurry, don't criticize them, and give them enough sense of security. Give your baby enough patience and support, and wait for them to say hi to strangers easily and happily!
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