hopes that their children are very smart and can be very good in life, work and study. And these need a very good brain to support. But not all children's brains are very smart. There is also a phenomenon that when I was young, this child was considered very clever, but when he grew up, he became more and more dull. In fact, this is not an accidental phenomenon. They all have common features.
Stanford University professor Julie Lythcott-Haims mentioned the Grant experiment in his TED talk. The conclusion of this experiment was reached by Harvard University in 75 years. The research shows that children's intellectual development is easily affected by family behavior and habits.
So while cultivating children, we should also pay attention to the impact of family behaviors on children. However, what specific behaviors and habits affect children's IQ development? "Z1z
Grant Experiment" research shows that: children become "stupid" and children "become stupid", these six bad habits become the "initiators".
1, skip breakfast
breakfast is very important for children, a nutritious meal Breakfast can make the child's physical function in a very fulfilling state and ensure a good spirit for the day. When the child is growing up, breakfast is also the first step of the day’s nutrition. A study at
shows that children who do not eat breakfast for a long time have their bodies The development is slower than normal children, and the brain's nutrition cannot be supplied in time, which causes the child's attention to be unable to concentrate. The more the brain or the more it decreases, the child becomes more and more dumb.
2, always criticize the child
child When making mistakes, the first reaction of many parents is to criticize and educate their children instead of communicating with them to find ways to solve the problem. This kind of prolonged criticism will cause the children to develop a state of self-denial. The situation can easily hurt the child’s self-esteem, and it will affect the child’s IQ and EQ in the long run. In this long-term Harvard study,
found that children who are often criticized and educated by their parents will become more sluggish in thinking and memory It becomes worse.
3, going to bed late, staying up late
staying up late, going to bed late will increase the workload of the child’s brain and put the child’s brain in a state of overload, which will lead to insufficient blood supply to the child’s brain, thus memory and concentration It will drop. As a result, children cannot concentrate when they are studying, and they cannot remember when they are memorizing questions. This way the psychological burden on children will become heavier, which will affect their overall performance.
4, treat books as "Llullaby"
Some children who play with mobile phones and computers for a long time cannot sleep well when they are asleep. They will choose to pick up a book next to them as a "lullaby" to make themselves fast Falling asleep, this will cause the child to have a natural reaction to books, that is, seeing the book is sleepy, which will lead to a gradual decline in the child’s learning. However, the child wanted to tell his parents, but was held back by a yelling from his parents, which caused the child’s emotions to be unable to release for a long time and caused a backlog. It is also not good for physical health and emotional management. Give vent to your emotions correctly.
6. There is no quiet environment
Although the family is a place to rest, if there is a child studying in the family, a noisy family environment will not benefit the child’s study. In a noisy environment, children can’t concentrate, and no matter how smart they are, their academic performance will gradually decline. Good parenting I have used many methods to solve the problem of concentration:
. Finally, I chose a picture book.
Regarding the issue of picture books, many parents don’t know how to choose, so when you can buy books for your children, don’t go online to save money. This is also my actual experience. After many attempts, I still decided to buy a physical book and chose this German curious dog "Concentration Training".
I have also picked up this kind of book on the Internet, I think it is good, and finally chose this set of books, and it is a set of 7This book, in addition to cultivating concentration, can also cultivate memory, judgment, coordination, observation, and learning. Use various games to stimulate children's curiosity. The book
not only uses common games such as walking mazes and finding differences, but also integrates knowledge of mathematics, English, and common sense into some thinking games to improve the fun and practicality of the game.
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