Ayun was pregnant recently, and while happy, she felt a little gloomy. I was very worried, so I took advantage of the weekend and ran to meet her. Ayun is a delicate and sensitive girl. When I first met her, she was always depressed. She didn't seem to have any vitality, but only when she came into contact, she realized that she was just a little inferior and a little cautious. Such a personality was formed since she was a child. Some bad experiences when she was a child made her feel inferior and sensitive. She is like a fragile porcelain, which makes people unable to help but develop an inexplicable desire for protection. After
saw her, we chatted, and I knew what she was worried about. She has always disliked her character very much, thinking that she is too cowardly, afraid that such an unpleasant character will be passed on to the baby in her belly... After listening to
, I couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief. It turned out that she was just worried about the character of the child. In fact, I believe many people have such doubts about whether the child's character will be affected by the parents.
First of all, we need to understand what factors are related to the baby's personality?
is unique from birth, including the formation of its own character, but the formation of character will be affected by both innate and acquired factors.
genetic factors
inheritance is indeed an important factor that innately affects personality. From the perspective of genetics, a baby will get 23 chromosomes from his parents. The baby will be born from the different gene combinations of both parents. Since this time, it has already begun to form, and it is difficult to change after it is formed.
Pregnant mother’s emotions
During pregnancy, the fetus can perceive every move of the mother. When the pregnant mother has strong emotional fluctuations, the fetus will also be affected to a certain extent, and it is even possible that the mother’s emotions during pregnancy will be fully reflected. In terms of baby's character.
Acquired growth environment
Acquired growth environment is also an important factor that affects a baby's personality. Family environment, school environment, parental personality, education methods, educational concepts, etc., can all subtly affect the growth of children. Isn't Xiaoyun so sensitive, inferior, and sentimental because of some of her growth experiences when she was a child?
Therefore, instead of worrying about inheriting bad personality to the baby during pregnancy, it is better to happily wait for the arrival of the baby, give the baby a healthy and comfortable growth environment, and train him to form correct cognition from childhood, instead of various Worry, all kinds of negative emotions will have a bad influence on the baby!
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