I also have two children. In the process of raising children, I fully feel that parents must guide their children in an all-round way so that they can have a sound personality and their abilities in all aspects can be comprehensively improved.

As a parent, the biggest hope for your children is that they can grow up healthily and become responsible talents for the family and society. I also have two children. In the process of raising children, I fully feel that parents must guide their children in an all-round way so that they can have a sound personality and their abilities in all aspects can be comprehensively improved.

I have seen many friends’ children who are too dependent on their parents in daily life and cannot get along well with others. As the children grow older, they become more rebellious.

In fact, the reason for all these is that parents have not done a good job in family education and have not effectively guided their children ideologically. This has resulted in children growing up extremely cowardly and unable to fully demonstrate their positive and confident side.

In fact, I have been thinking about education since the day my children were born. Because I graduated from a normal college and have a certain understanding of education, I do not have high expectations for my children. I only hope that they will become happy ordinary people and enjoy the happiness of ordinary people. At the same time, I also believe that giving children a free atmosphere to grow will definitely help their future growth. Knowledge and talents can only be of greatest value if they are acquired in practice. Relying on rote memorization and coercion from parents simply cannot achieve the desired results.

So I am also looking for books on family education everywhere to improve myself. As a father of two children, my experience is that you should never be self-righteous, learn with an open mind and constantly improve yourself. Especially those who have just become parents, they must treat their children's growth and education with a humble attitude.

Newly born children are like a blank piece of paper. Their growth requires our planning, but the direction we plan must be combined with the children's interests and hobbies. Only happy learning driven by interest can make children have the urge to participate in learning.

Current children generally have the following problems:

: Selfishness, which will make it difficult for children to integrate into collective life.

: Lack of sense of responsibility. As their children grow up, many parents will feel that they have raised a "white-eyed wolf". Sometimes they regret having children. In fact, their children have no education and it is useless to blame anyone.

3: Rebellion is a common characteristic of contemporary children. They have been influenced by various bad ideas on the Internet since they were young, so they often engage in rebellious behaviors and like to go against their parents. The more strict their parents are, the more menstrual problems occur at home. This is especially true in terms of learning. I believe that online classes during the past few years during the epidemic have left a deep impression on most parents.

Therefore, as a parent, you must realize your own shortcomings in family education. This reminds me of the "38 Letters from Rockefeller to His Son" that I once read. Today I want to share with you my understanding of the first letter "The starting point does not determine the end point."

I personally think the content of this letter is very important. In fact, there is a saying in society now: "You cannot let your children lose at the starting line." Therefore, many parents are selling the pot and selling iron, regardless of the actual situation of the family, and their children have a series of unrealistic expectations, which ultimately leads to the children becoming extremely selfish, never understanding the hard work of their parents, pursuing material enjoyment every day, but never willing to put in a little effort.

Although the position of parents can determine the starting point of a child's life, there is an old saying in China that "you can't be poor for three generations, and you can't be rich for three generations." You must know the truth about whether you can prosper or not. In fact, your destiny is in your own hands. As long as a person is positive, he can make great achievements in whatever job he does.

What parents need to do most is to let their children recognize their current situation and hold their destiny firmly in their own hands instead of relying on others. Only by doing this can they face future opportunities and challenges more rationally and achieve the glory of life.

Therefore, I think every parent should carefully read "38 Letters from Rockefeller to His Son". This book is suitable for both parents and children to read. It is best for parents and children to read it together and discuss it together to achieve greater value.

Educating good children is every parent’s dream. I hope that every parent can continuously improve themselves through learning and fully understand the importance of family education. At the same time, I also hope that my understanding and suggestions can help everyone. If you are interested in this book, you can click on the following link to improve yourself and create more favorable conditions for your children’s future.