When we talk about children’s intelligence, parents start to talkative . Each has its own merits, and there are various opinions. But IQ problems can really be traced in children's daily behaviors.
These three "little habits" of children imply that they are smart. Parents should not "shut them out".
一: " nonsense " a basket of
When children are about 3-4 years old, it is not difficult to find that their little mouths always like to talk non-stop. Although I didn’t say much about the actual business, it always gave parents the feeling that there was a lot of “nonsense”. There are a hundred thousand "whys" in my mind, and I always ask endless questions.
This is because children’s brain development is not yet mature and they are in the process of exercising their thinking ability, so they will think of what they see and blurt it out.
A question is first transmitted to the brain through vision and hearing. Then children need to think, analyze and judge by themselves, sort out the reasons for things and then express them. This process of organizing language is the process of exercising logical thinking ability.
During the entire process, various senses and neurons are mobilized. The more a child is willing to talk and ask more questions, the more ideal his thinking power is and the faster the brain nerve transmission speed.
Therefore, when children " talkative " , parents should not tell their children " to shut up " . It is the children who will be delayed if they correct the mistakes.
Parents can listen selectively. If we cannot respond in sentences, we can answer children appropriately and satisfy their curiosity. If you have enough time, you can accompany your children to explore their "100,000 Whys". Encourage children to express, speak, ask questions, and think.
Two: " House-destroying monster "
Children who love to break up the house tend to be boys. After careful observation of them, we found that most of the children are restless and love to "wreak havoc". They either unscrew the protective padding of the table legs or buckle the screws somewhere. They like to dismantle the toys into a "dazzling array" and feel full of pride. Children like
who love to "tear down the house" are indeed very troublesome. But parents can think about it from another perspective. Does a child who likes to tear down the house mean that he is not only very curious, but also able to synchronize his hands-on ability with it and combine theory with practice?
We should protect children's curiosity appropriately. Because in the future, no matter which industry you are in, you will need to have a heart for research and a spirit of research in order to shine in the industry.
3: " deafness " 's child
When a child devotes himself to one thing, others call him "early deaf". In fact, this is a sign of high concentration and strong concentration.
It is natural for children to love to play. When they play puzzles, building blocks and other games, they are always very involved and are not easily disturbed by the outside world. They can improve their concentration through play.
Therefore, when seeing their children doing something seriously, parents can be more patient. Interrupted concentration is difficult to regain.
The above content is for reference only. Please proceed under the guidance of professionals. We are all novices on the road to parenting. How to take better care of our children? You can follow me and discuss things on the road to parenting with me. .
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