Hello everyone, my name is Hu Junli.
A family education entrepreneur who accompanies mothers to raise children scientifically.
※ In addition to original articles, selects 3 study notes every day.
The content of study notes comes from: books, official accounts, Zhihu, Weibo, paid communities, group chats, Moments, etc. They do not represent personal opinions, and the original source is not clear, so most of them do not indicate where they were taken from, and have been deleted due to infringement.
This is the 360th study note: a growth environment without internal or external worries.
The following is the text of the study notes.
1. Time management
Time management includes three abilities:
. Just do the unimportant things almost.
3. Distinguish between important things and unimportant things. Be able to give up quickly once things no longer matter.
Whether something is important depends on the "points" of the consequences.
2. Cultivate children's skills
The B&B where I live has a young painter, a girl who was born in 1998. She has a lot of personality and is good-looking.
She lives on the top floor, which is an extra room on the rooftop. I once went up there to dry quilts. When I saw it, my first reaction was, "It's really hard to make money in the arts. Why do you live here? The environment is so bad."
Later, when I chatted with the boss, I found out that she charged more than 3,000 yuan a month for just this room. .
I asked why it was so expensive. The boss said that it just looked old from the outside, but inside there were two bedrooms and one living room with all the appliances. They also wanted the top floor to be clean and have an exclusive small balcony where you could look at Erhai Lake at any time ...
After self-examination, I found that I was indeed preconceived.
Later, I found out that she had an art studio. It was very tacky and I went to find out more about it. The annual rent was 70,000 to 80,000 yuan.
Later, I found out that she also had an assistant who was very friendly and taught painting on site. It was very tacky. I thought about it again. Is the salary this year at least 100,000 less?
I’m very confused. The studio doesn’t seem to have many customers, but the costs are all here. How does it make a profit?
After a few days, I found out that she had hundreds of thousands of fans on a certain website.
teaches people to draw online classes, which cost a few hundred yuan per copy, and can easily sell hundreds of copies. At the same time, she also accepts offline students, and provides adults with accelerated art classes. Each course costs several thousand yuan, and many people pay for it.
It is said that her strength is to break down the painting process and make it very easy to use and attractive.
The owner of the B&B said that you will find Dali that the most indispensable thing is bloggers, Internet celebrities and small businessmen. Everyone has their own skills, and they come and go like the wind.
My neighbor looks about the same age as me. He drove here by car and installed a stylish go-kart ,
racing version, in the trunk. The top speed can reach dozens of kilometers per hour, which made the two of us jealous.
He runs an e-commerce business and has matured over the years, so he goes out to relax by himself.
Then my teammates kept saying, Children need to be nurtured, but there is no need to hang them on their grades.
The most important thing is to be independent and have a certain skill. Society will not be hungry for such people . We don’t need to be too anxious.
3. No external disturbances, no internal worries
A question I often think about is that when a child's spiritual consciousness begins to grow, a basic premise is needed. What is this basic premise?
My experience is a sense of security and stability.
He does not have to worry about oppression, control, abandonment, ridicule or contempt from family and outside. The emotions displayed are joyful, tranquil and full of vitality.
A child who is not worried about external disturbances will naturally have no internal worries and will not consume mental energy. His mental tension will naturally turn inward and he will gradually discover himself.
What is the meaning of self-discovery?
It is the core of meaning of human existence and the source of sustainable strength in human life.
contains the individual's talent, genes, happiness code and final direction. It contains all the seeds that the individual wants to have. It is also the beginning of a child's personality tending towards self-identity.
Children who have found themselves can easily become immersed in one thing. Their independent consciousness sprouts, and they feel that they are self-sufficient individuals, and then connect with the outside world from the inside out.
The stronger the self-awareness, the stronger the desire to connect with the world, which prompts him to discover his own goals, eager to try, eager to explore, focused on action, and has a surge of internal drive.
The growth of a child is the same as the development of the country. If there are no internal worries or external troubles, he must be peaceful and focus on developing himself.
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