Since then, I have been thinking that if an accident happens and my second child is born, although the child is more tired when he is young, when we are old, at least the two of them will be related by blood and the closest people. We will have someone to discuss things together

Here I will briefly talk about my experience! My husband and I got married in 2013, and my eldest son was born in 2014. The moment he was born, I decided not to have a second child. All female compatriots know the pain of giving birth, and of course I am no exception. Two years later, one day, my father-in-law suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and was hospitalized for a month. Fortunately, my sister-in-law took turns taking care of him during this month. Otherwise, I don’t know how he would have survived. Since then, I have been thinking that if an accident happens and my second child is born, although the child is more tired when he is young, when we are old, at least the two of them will be related by blood and the closest people. We will have someone to discuss things together in the future. If we have someone to help us when we are old and sick, it will be a lot easier. Later, when an accident happened, the second baby was born without hesitation. Although he was a little tired, he was happy. No matter what happened to them in the future, someone would pay attention to each other, and they could help each other without reservation. So I think it is still necessary to have a second child. As for a third child, it depends on personal conditions. I will not have another child [face covering]