Especially now that we have entered the era of "coexisting" with the epidemic, we must pay attention to the cultivation of children's frustration tolerance. Some parents pay too much attention to success education and ignore frustration education, so that their children are vulne

Over the past three years, the repeated raging of the new coronavirus has had a great impact on our lives. We are slowly "coexisting" with the virus , and we accept the risk of being infected calmly. Especially now that we have entered the era of "coexisting" with the epidemic, we must pay attention to the cultivation of children's frustration tolerance.

Frustration tolerance refers to the ability of an individual to actively and autonomously get out of trouble and avoid psychological and behavioral disorders when encountering setbacks. Frustration is a double-edged sword. It can not only bring pain to people, but also temper people's character and will. Some parents pay too much attention to success education and ignore frustration education, so that their children are vulnerable to setbacks. When the children come out of the greenhouse, they are unable to adapt to the ever-changing and complex environment and are vulnerable to setbacks. Some parents have incorrect views on frustration education and regard punishment as setbacks and harshness as setbacks, so that their children fear setbacks, avoid setbacks, and lack the ability to tolerate setbacks.

Frustration tolerance cultivation is necessary for life growth, and setbacks are the only way for a person to grow. The key is how we face setbacks and how we choose. Experiencing setbacks does not mean that you will be able to grow. At the same time, frustration tolerance is an ability that can be cultivated and improved. Especially for children, if they learn to think and act positively in the face of difficulties and challenges, and learn experiences and lessons from setbacks, then they will be able to find the value and meaning of life when they encounter hardships in the future, so that they will not appear hasty and trembling when facing setbacks.