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There is a post on the Internet: "Is it wrong that I don't let my parents-in-law see the child?"
The owner of the post is a mother who has just given birth and the child is only 30 days old.
Her father-in-law and mother-in-law were in her hometown. When she learned that she was about to give birth to a baby, her mother-in-law packed her luggage and prepared to visit her.
But at that time, the place where the woman was living was under lockdown. Even if her mother-in-law came, she would not be able to see her and would need to be quarantined for a few days because she was across a province.
A woman went to the hospital to wait for delivery. Her mother-in-law was so worried at home that she called her son to pick her up, saying that she wanted to hold her grandson even if she was quarantined for a few days.
Her son told her not to come. The hospital has regulations that only allow one person to visit. On the day of giving birth, one more person can be added. Of these two places, one is for him and the other is for his aunt. Who can withdraw?
After the mother stayed in the hospital for a few days, she was seamlessly connected to the confinement center. The confinement center also had regulations that no other family members were allowed to visit except her husband. At critical times, the confinement center had strict management to protect the mother and the baby.
There is no other way. The parents-in-law can only watch the grandson through video. The grandson is pink and cute. It’s hard to see enough. Who doesn’t want to hold the child in his arms?
When Bao's mother returned home, the call from her father-in-law and mother-in-law came again, saying that she had to come to see her grandson. If she was not allowed to come, they would be angry.
The husband had no choice but to discuss with his wife: "If my parents want to come, let them come."
Mom: "No, I can't come now. I want to see the children, so you can take more videos for them."
"Can the video be the same? ? My mother wants to hold the baby even though she can’t see it. ”
“I know, but it’s too risky for the child to do it now. He is so young and can’t take medicine yet. At least wait until he is 3 months old and can take medicine. ”
"My parents are not sick. Otherwise, I will ask them to get tested. If they are not sick, can we let them come over?"
" No! Even if the parents-in-law are in good health, they may be infected with htm after traveling long distances. l4 germs , when I hold the child, the child has no resistance to , what do you think? "
"You just don't want to see my parents, right?" The man was a little anxious.
"No, I just want to wait until the child is older and can take medicine in more than two months. At that time, I can let the parents-in-law come."
Seeing her husband's reluctance, Bao's mother also felt aggrieved. She complained online that since the child was born, her husband only knew how to play with the child. She took care of the child crying in the middle of the night, and her husband didn't even know how she felt.
Children are very cute, but crying is also very torturous. Mom just wants to keep her children safe, so what did she do wrong?
Netizens left messages one after another.
- Some people said: "Mama did the right thing. You can see the child at any time. There is no need to rush and let the elderly wait."
- Some people said: "Only Mom can understand the sadness of Mum. It is not that she refuses to visit her parents-in-law, but that the child is too young and she is worried about the child's physical discomfort. This approach That's right."
- Some netizens said: "The old man is too stubborn and only considers his own feelings. Does the child have to travel a long distance at this time? If something happens, it is not his son who is in a dilemma. "
Yes, at the critical moment, being careful is the right option.
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On December 21, Wang Jinsong sent a message that his mother was taken away by the epidemic.
A 10-year-old fourth-grade girl in Guangxi suffered from fever and convulsions, and rescue efforts were ineffective.
There is also a 37-year-old athlete Wang Ruoji , who died of diabetes complications after becoming pregnant.
It turns out that we always feel that the virus and are far away from us. In fact, they are protected too well by the country.
Once the epidemic is released, each of us is the first person responsible for our health. Facing the "flood", we can only use our own bodies to carry it.
Even if the proportion is only 0.01%, this proportion is worth millions of lives among a large base of 1.4 billion people. A grain of ashes in the
era is like a mountain when it falls on everyone's head.
The more lucky you are, the easier it is to get tricked, and you will be dissatisfied with the virus dictatorship.
The reason is very simple. When you relax your vigilance, you may have a chance to get out of the way of the virus. By the time you feel uncomfortable, the virus has actually been in your body for a few days and has already reproduced many offspring.
There is a kind of arrogance called ignorance.
In such a dangerous time, some people still refuse to control themselves and crowd in wherever the excitement is. The amusement park is open, and many people flock to it and wait in long lines to play. The restaurant is open, and everyone sits around and talks with friends.
Even in the circle of friends, there are people who stand out from the crowd.
"I am the chosen one. I am surrounded by friends who have fevers, but my body temperature is still stable. Is the thermometer broken?"
felt so proud that he wanted to jump out of the screen.
In fact, there is really no need to be proud. Everyone has different resistance. You don’t feel much now. Wait a few days and you may not be so arrogant.
Internet celebrity blogger Liu Zichen gave everyone a heads up.
He said that he was infected again. The first two symptoms were relatively mild, so he didn't worry about it, but the third time the symptoms were so severe that he couldn't stand up, so he called an ambulance directly. He hopes everyone can learn to protect themselves.
The person who really laughs last is not how much money you have or how famous you are, but whether you can maintain your health.
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In the post-epidemic era, how should we protect ourselves and our families?
needs to do the following three things.
First, don’t treat “caught” as a cold.
We don’t deny that some people have very mild symptoms and can even get better after sleeping.
But if you want to judge something, you can't look at individual cases, but the overall response.
In fact, most people have strong reactions, and the asymptomatic that experts call is not the same as the asymptomatic we understand.
A doctor revealed that what experts call asymptomatic actually means that the lungs will not be infected. However, when we ordinary people understand asymptomatic, most people think that there will be no reaction.
, the gap is really huge.
I am also positive, and I feel it is really uncomfortable. I have had a fever for 3 days, and I can’t even stand upright when I walk. I finally stopped having a fever, and I cough again, and I can’t stop coughing. Sometimes I feel like there is a lump of phlegm in my throat sticking to my respiratory tract, and I want to cough it out.
At that moment, I understood the word "silent hypoxia".
Some elderly people may not seem to have severe symptoms on the surface, but at some point, they will suddenly feel chest tightness and suffocation, and their condition will worsen. When you send the elderly person for a X-ray, you will find that the lungs have turned white.
Each of us must be vigilant, strategically despise viruses, and tactically pay attention to them, and never regret it until the illness becomes serious.
Second, try to avoid visiting relatives to reduce cross-infection.
The end of the year is coming soon. Many young people have returned from other places, and relatives are moving around more frequently.
Chinese people value family ties, but if they are not properly protected, happy things may turn out to be bad.
No matter where we return from, we must self-isolate for a few days. After we are sure that we are healthy, we can eat at the same table with our family.
Among relatives, we should avoid walking around if we can, and avoid going to gatherings if we can. There are many ways to connect with each other, and it doesn't just happen overnight. We can express our concern by making phone calls, etc. There is no need to actually run over.
Sometimes, your protection is the best respect for family ties.
You must know that most of the elderly in rural areas do not have so many N95 masks, and they do not prepare any medicine. If they get sick, they will be very worried.
Third, improve your own immunity and reduce emotional internal friction.
Some people are positive, and some are not positive.
People who are positive feel at ease to recuperate, while people who are not positive feel anxious. When will it be my turn?
This kind of anxiety is also called "phantom yang". There may be some discomfort reactions, but after testing, it is found that there is nothing wrong.
In my opinion, this is really unnecessary.
If you are not sick, it means that your body has strong resistance. You can put your mind at ease, have less emotional internal consumption, and have more energy to maintain your own immune system .
We are caught up in the trend of the times, but we must also learn to be alone and spend the time online reading books. Words will give you the power of calmness.
is written at the back:
The epidemic is a mirror, reflecting everyone’s different thinking and cognition.
We cannot control others, but we can take care of ourselves and protect the health and safety of our families.
Go to the bottom of the water , sit back and watch the clouds rise.
The epidemic is just an episode in our lives. It may have far-reaching consequences and it will eventually pass.
We firmly believe that after walking through the long tunnel, we will definitely see the light ahead.
encourage each other!
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