What is patriarchal thought and what is feminism? In this era when everyone advocates equality between men and women, are there still many people still holding the idea of favoring boys over girls in the old era? There are, and there are many! Why are most of the groups who have such ideas older women like mother-in-law, aunt and aunt?
also acts as a woman and also as a mother. Are they really the best story like what they think is the best for both children? No, they may not even realize that what prompts them to say "good words" in their hearts is the deep-seated patriarchal idea. They think that the roots of a boy's family cannot be broken. They think that women will never get married or get married in the future, so it is best to have a boy to pass on the family line!
My friend just passed the confinement period. We went to visit him, talking about the hardships of being pregnant for ten months, the pain of giving birth, and the hardships of being a mother since she was a mother for one month, and occasionally said something that always made her angry: I had just left the delivery room, and when I saw the newborn child, I had the joy of becoming a mother. The couple were in the hope of a better life for the future family of three. At this time, the man's aunt came to visit him. As he said this, he said this: "You are still young, hurry up and have another one. There is only one in their family. How can no one come to pass on the family line in the future? Besides, this girl will get married in the future. You two will not take care of each other when they are old in the future."
Hearing this sentence, a friend who was already full of joy suddenly pulled down his face. When the man saw that his wife was unhappy, he hurried to smooth things over. Joke: We just got married, and the mortgage is still under pressure. There are so many debts to be paid when we hold the wedding. Now the social pressure is so great, just one baby is enough for us to work, so we don’t think so much...
After my friend came back from the hospital, I immediately quit the family group on WeChat, blocking the man’s aunts and aunts, and forbidding all people to visit during the confinement period. During the confinement period, my mother came to take care of the whole process...
Even she herself may not be able to understand. In such an era, someone can still say such words!
It is impossible for you to change a person's deep-rooted thoughts. Why do we now say that women are free and equal? But there are still so many people raising flags and shouting about inheriting the family line?
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