In real life, watching TV often sees some news about abandoning children. Due to the conflict between husband and wife, financial pressure, preferring boys over girls, female students getting pregnant before marriage, etc., tragedies of children being abandoned one after another.

In real life, watching TV often sees some news about abandoning children. Due to the conflict between husband and wife, financial pressure, preferring boys over girls, female students getting pregnant before marriage, etc., tragedies of children being abandoned one after another.

This year, the incident of actor Zheng Shuang suspected of surrogacy abandonment caused heated discussions on the public. As a public figure, Zheng Shuang's behavior surpassed the moral bottom line commonly recognized by the public and received widespread attention and controversy from the public.

A woman is destined to go through a lot of hardships since she became pregnant. When pregnant for ten months, you have to endure morning sickness, foot cramps, back pain, fetal movement, and have a big belly and are unable to move. The finger pain of is caused by natural delivery, and the stomach pain of cesarean section is caused by natural delivery. It is like walking in the gates of hell.

ten months pregnant, one day giving birth. After the child is born, the horror officially begins. The first challenge I face every day is breastfeeding and sleeping. I breastfeed every 1-2 hours, and I still have to keep my baby open with my upper and lower eyelids while sleeping in the middle of the night. The lack of sleep over the years will lead to poor mental state, bad temper, and poor mood.

"Have a child for a hundred years, always worry about ninety-nine years old." Raising children is a game of passing the level. Every stage of a child's growth is considered one level. After completing one level, advance to the next level. You will never know what kind of big boss is waiting for you in the next level.

In addition, after becoming a mother, you will find that the relationship with your husband will also change. Especially in the first two years after giving birth, you have the urge to divorce countless times.

In the past, I always felt that love entered marriage and gave birth to the crystallization of love. A person can meet a suitable person at the right time in his life, and this person happens to be in the same world as you. What a happy thing this is, it must be that I saved the Milky Way in my previous life.

You must not know that after becoming a mother, you will feel that you have become another self in the parallel world, discovering another unknown side of yourself, another hidden self.

There is a kind of sadness called the first two years of giving birth! A woman’s hardship and fatigue come from physical and mental fatigue. A man knows nothing, only women understand how difficult it is! Everything is centered around the child, and it feels scary to think about it! However, many women will still choose the same path.

There is a kind of sadness called the first two years of having a baby. No matter how good the relationship is, no matter how hard it is, you have to go through the troubled destruction; no matter how much patience you have after the first two years of giving birth, you have to go through the baptism of quarrels; no matter how beautiful the memories are, you have to become a luxury for memory.

After giving birth to a child, I am too tired and often feel nervous and feel lost. If you dislike your husband in all kinds of dislikes, you won’t be as emotional as a literary youth. You will wonder why you have such disagreements with him, and what’s the bullshit when standing on the same side of the world? Because of the various fatigue of parenting after marriage, you will have less conversations with your spouse. The communication mainly revolves around eating, drinking, defecating, urinating, and sleeping, these basic survival issues. And I will gradually not discuss these issues calmly. You start quarreling, and you can eat as a meal. You can eat more than 3 meals a day, and you can eat stomachache . No matter how loving a couple is, they have the idea of ​​divorce 100 times in their lives and the urge to strangle each other 50 times in their lives. Therefore, it is such a rare miracle that two normal people, one man and one woman, can stay together calmly and live together for a long time after marriage. Is giving birth to a baby aid or making trouble for this marriage? We really can't say it well.

In addition, the cuteness of human children is too short. He is in his infancy, you will think that he is very cute when he sleeps soundly, and that he is likeable when he doesn't cry or make a fuss. Once you can walk or run, you have to follow him after him all day. When I grew up, I was naughty and always worried that he would bump into it, and I was afraid here and there. After finally going to school, I have to experience the life of "barking and furious" of tutoring homework. When you grow up, you have to worry about his rebelliousness and disobedience... As a mother, you should pay attention to his food and clothing every day, care about his health, and pay attention to his mental health, and everything revolves around the child. So the greatest love in the world must be maternal love, and no one refutes it.I will not elaborate on the praises of maternal love.

Flamingo Mother has no milk, so in order to raise the child, she had to secrete a crop milk and mix her own blood to feed it to the cubs. The mother of the bird looks for insects a hundred times to wait for the cubs to feed them. Even if animals know to raise their children well and let them live independently, but people are born without raising them and abandoning young and ignorant babies, they will really be worse than livestock.

When an embryo was born from the mother, the crisp sound of crying was destined to be a living life that came to the world. As a parent, he knows that he should fulfill his obligation to raise his children but he will throw them away at will. Even if you have any motivation, no matter how beautiful the excuse is, you cannot cover up the bad behavior of this abandonment. Regardless of the life or death of the child, the crime of abandonment of will eventually be subject to legal sanctions.

If a woman does not have enough sense of responsibility and feels that she can be a mother or a good mother, please do not bring him to this world easily. Before becoming a parent, you should think carefully about whether you think about your future life, whether you are ready for this, and whether you are qualified to be a mother.

If you are pregnant unexpectedly and don’t want it, you can solve it early. Why should I abandon it after birth? Let him face his cruel life in the future? Give him a dark childhood growth?

Because human children are not like your online shopping, the things you buy are not good-looking, don’t like or be satisfied with, and you can return or return the goods. Human child, since you have chosen to bring him to this world, you must be responsible for his life.

Human children, the goods will not be returned, all girls please consider carefully!