I have two best friends, one of which has a good family condition, and her mother doesn't let her do anything. She is spoiled and develops the habit of being idle. I can't even find a serious job. After getting married, life was in a mess, and the couple quarreled every day about housework. My husband was busy with work and when he got home from get off work, he started to get angry. Her mother had no choice but to help with housework and forced her daughter to learn how to do it, otherwise the family would be broken. With her children, she slowly learned to do housework. The mother didn't want her daughter to be a nanny, and in the end her daughter became a genuine housewife. Another best friend, whose family conditions are average, her mother often asks her to help with housework. She develops the good habit of hard work, works diligently and works quickly, and also finds herself a good job. Now she has a high salary and is capable. There is no need to do housework at all, and the family hires a nanny to do work. Therefore, it is possible to not do housework if you want to train your daughter to be excellent. It is not that the mother does not teach her housework, so the daughter does not need to do housework.
Daughter and son-in-law don’t live much with their parents-in-law when they get married now. Most of them live together for their children, the children’s children, not the children of their parents-in-law. The parents-in-law live together to take care of their children. It was their parents-in-law who were working as nannies for them, and they did some work for themselves. If your daughter thinks that everything she does is for her in-laws' family, it has nothing to do with her, and an incompetent man will tolerate it. Men with the ability to have blood will breed conflicts.
I did housework for myself, not for anyone to be a nanny. Nowadays, there is no daughter-in-law who is a nanny for her mother-in-law. It’s almost the same as mother-in-law who is a nanny for her son and daughter-in-law. Cultivating children's ability to live independently is for their own sake, not for others.
You raise a child who can do nothing, and you can take care of everything and be selfish. When you get old and sick, she will not take care of you, and the biggest victim is you. Don’t complain about your child being unfilial when you get old. This is called self-bearing. Drink the bitter wine you brewed by yourself.
Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children to do some housework appropriately. Let children be a hardworking and kind person from an early age, and the benefits are yourself rather than others.
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