Some strange ideas always burst out in the children's heads, and there are many reasons? This trend is what little girls nowadays like to wear small skirts, whether in spring, summer, autumn and winter. Especially in winter, I have to wear skirts, and as parents, I don’t know how to persuade them. If you don't let him wear it, he's just crying endlessly. He persuaded him to educate him carefully, or take a step back and promised him to buy other toys to coax him. However, some parents follow their children's requirements and ask their children to wear skirts and freeze outside. They may not be the case next time. As the saying goes, one's mistake will lead to wisdom.
Some time ago, I saw a video online, saying that the child was wearing a skirt outside. The purpose of his parents may not make sense to the child, so he lets him get frozen outside to see if he wants to wear a skirt next time. But netizens are not calm. Some people accused him of being a cruel mother. Some people say that a three-year-old child can know what he can do, but you can just persuade him. But this parent’s approach is a trial and error education. In fact, let children directly experience the direct consequences of wrong behavior.
As the so-called trial and error education, we can give a simple example. For example, eating, letting children eat is also a headache for many parents. For example, if you set a time to eat, the child is playing with his mobile phone and watching TV during this period, he can't come to eat. So after everyone finished the meal, the child came over to have a meal. At this time, you should tell him that the lunch is gone and that you can only wait until evening if you want to eat. He must bear the consequences of hunger. Of course, too many parents are reluctant to let their children bear the consequences of making mistakes, so they will make their children arrogant.
Then when we do trial and error education, we must let the children bear the direct result of the error, rather than negatively solving this problem. We must learn to let go and let children learn to grow through mistakes, rather than needing lifelong escort for our parents. But we must avoid too blind trial and error, because parents think this is a good way and let their children take care of themselves. This is a wrong behavior, because the visual illusion given to children is always limited. Let him slowly adapt to this environment and encourage his children to develop good behavioral habits.
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