When children enter adolescence, we parents must not worry more. For example, boys will be impulsive, and we are worried that they may have conflicts with others, or be impulsive, or have no good friends, and have bad habits.
As for girls, we are more worried about her safety, or her premature love, and do not pay attention to her studies.
However, in general, we have strict requirements for adolescent children, whether in school or family. Usually, I mainly wear school uniforms. Even if they put on makeup, they are still average and not too out of line.
But I saw a variety show in Japan online. In the show, a group of girls, even elementary school students, were really surprised when talking about some ideas about clothing, appearance, and future:
Are these children too precocious?
: How precocious do Japanese children puberty?
In our impression, eleven or twelve-year-old girls should be wearing cute and cute clothes and starting to jump. Their fleshy faces were childish, and they showed one or two little tiger teeth when they smiled. They are innocent.
But how precocious do Japanese children puberty do? After seeing this set of photos, the mothers couldn't sit still.
These children have a unique tone and a round face when speaking. This is what children should look like. But they really can't find any innocence in their appearance.
They don’t wear children’s clothing, but rather fashionable clothes. They are exquisite and beautiful. Bags and accessories are stylish too. The eyebrows are thick, the blush is bright, and the lipstick is beautiful.
This is not a child. "Maturity" is just an adult
This is not an exaggeration, but what is even more surprising is that it is here.
A little girl was asked what are the criteria for choosing a spouse in the future?
If they are our children, they may be fully focused on homework and learning, or at best play games. How did they think of any mate selection criteria? Even the criteria for choosing a spouse are likely to be "like dads"
But these children are really "magical". The girl directly answered: "Gentleness and considerate are really good, but being rich is more important."
My God, I just want to ask, do children aged 11-12 know what "gentleness and considerate" means? And children of this age will consider the financial situation of their future partners.
Have they been thinking for too long...
What is important is to hear a group of primary school students sitting together and discussing future money decently, otherwise there is nothing they can do about this topic. I'm real. Very shocking.
Because in my opinion, they are really just kids. Isn't it too early to think about these things at such a young age?
Of course, I'm not saying that children cannot think about the future. But I think there are things to do at every stage.
For example, the most important thing for a student is to learn his homework, hone his skills, and prepare for his future entry into society. There are also appearance, appearance, money, etc. , let's wait until then to consider it.
Moreover, if a child shows maturity so early, it is actually harmful to his own development.
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