Last year, the young couple gave birth to a child and bought a big villa, but in short, they had no plans to return to China to develop.
Doctors from pregnancy to delivery and then to confinement, there was no help from anyone during this period. The young couple worked and studied while taking care of their children. Now the child is over one year old, and the parents of both parties have only met their grandson in the video.
Both the leader and wife of the unit have retired and have money and leisure, but in recent years, it is really not easy for them to go to the United States. After finally getting the visa for
, it is hard to buy air tickets! Moms can't bear to leave their sons and grandsons, and wish they could fly to the United States immediately to take care of them.
But the leader didn't want to go, and thought it was better for us in China. If we went to the United States, we were not familiar with the language and were not familiar with the place. In short, two words: Don't go! What's good about the United States?
Two years ago, the leader's wife fell ill and underwent a major operation. The son and daughter-in-law were unable to return to China, let alone take care of her, and she relied on the leader's nephews and nieces to take care of her.
Leaders often joke, what's the use of having this son? Cultivated for Americans. After I die, throw my ashes into the sea, otherwise there will be no one who visits me every year, and the grass on the grave is so tall, and no one will come back to clean it up.
During the festival, people are lively and the leader’s family is always two people. In order not to appear deserted, they will go to their brother and sister-in-law’s house!
Others (including me) are envious of them. They have a top student son who often learns from them. How to improve their children's academic performance and cultivate their children's excellence!
When they were young, they were indeed proud. Not only did their son not spend a penny on studying abroad, they also earned them hundreds of thousands of dollars in scholarships every year.
At that time, everyone was talking about topics together, and they always heard the leaders say how his son was raised and how your young parents should do what they should do now.
But as I grow older over the years, my health is not as good as before. I feel more and more that it is not necessarily a good thing for my son to be too good, and I feel a little regretful about sending my son abroad.
Now when we learn from him, he will say, "As a child, it's almost enough, you don't need to be trained too well. What's the point like me?" I went to a similar university in China, and after graduation, I had a similar job. I just had to support myself. Why do I need so much money?
The current situation in their family is that the elderly are unwilling to settle down, but they also miss their grandson and their son and daughter-in-law are in the United States, and they are in a dilemma.
The son and daughter-in-law have lived in the United States for too long and are rarely back to China. They are already indifferent to China's human nature, etiquette, etc., which is also a major reason why leaders are unhappy and regretful.
If it were you, would you regret it?
"What do you do to make your child so outstanding? In the future, he will only be farther away from you." Do you agree with this point of view?
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