The doctoral mother used a lazy method to take care of her children with a 5-year-old child and had super concentration. The method was so practical. Her high school classmate Xiao Zhao was a famous university master in our class. Not only did she have excellent college entrance

Doctoral mother uses lazy methods to take care of her children

-year-old child has super concentration, and the method is too practical.

High school classmate Xiao Zhao is a famous university master of our class. Not only did he have excellent college entrance examination scores that year, he directly got into 985 universities, but he also received scholarships every year in college. After graduation, he became a graduate student. He worked as a doctorate and finally became a postdoctoral fellow, becoming a very famous strong woman in our school and the entire small town.

Xiao Zhao, who walked out of the campus and the laboratory, also deserves these three words, especially in terms of taking care of his career and family, he is really good at everything. Take giving birth to a child. At that time, Xiao Zhao was diagnosed with pregnancy less than a month after getting married, and he reacted very much. However, Xiao Zhao did not take care of her at that time. Instead, he insisted on going to work every day and still worked very hard. Sometimes he stayed in the laboratory for about ten hours. I have never seen a pregnant mother as strong as her. It was not until the pregnancy and delivery period approached that Xiao Zhao chose to go home and wait for delivery. At that time, we all asserted that Xiao Zhao, a workaholic, would probably go back to work after giving birth to a child and leaving confinement.

However, what we didn’t expect was that after the child was born, Xiao Zhao resolutely chose to be a housewife, and directly quit her original studio job and became a full-time mother at home. We were all puzzled. Xiao Zhao’s job, let alone her workaholic who regards her career as a life, she is reluctant to leave her. She has such a high annual salary and such a good salary. We even heard that in order to keep Xiao Zhao, the leader of the unit promised to extend her maternity leave! However, Xiao Zhao chose to refuse and lived a life of taking care of his husband and children at home with peace of mind. We all feel very sorry that such a strong woman with high education will have to ask others for money from now on. It is really not worth it!

However, Xiao Zhao quickly proved to us again with his own strength that the gap between geniuses and ordinary people is that geniuses can do outstandingly no matter what they do. Let’s just be a housewife. After becoming a housewife, many people around me are sloppy all day long and their mental states are getting more and more backward. They are full of resentment and complain as soon as they open their mouths, but Xiao Zhao has no such phenomena at all.

After taking care of the baby full time, Xiao Zhao not only cleaned her family of three in an orderly manner every day, but also dressed up very elegantly and fashionablely, not only with a slim figure, but also constantly learning and improving. The most important thing is that her child is also very good after going to kindergarten. Not only is he focused and quick to react in class, he is better than other children whether he is doing handicrafts or playing games, but he is also very generous in dealing with people and has a high emotional intelligence. Those of us who regretted her at the time deeply admired her, especially myself.

Because the child is about the same age as Xiao Zhao's child, I always unconsciously compare with this peer who is much better than me. I remember when I saw Xiao Zhao resign and decide to be a full-time housewife, I was very proud of myself for being able to continue to stick to my work, and felt that I was finally better than Xiao Zhao on the one hand over the years. However, it took me three or four years to double my salary. After Xiao Zhao's continuous improvement over the years and his leaping salary, there was still a huge difference. So when my child went to kindergarten and Xiao Zhao resumed work, I really admired Xiao Zhao. He really sharpened his knives and chopped wood!

However, compared with the gap in career and salary, what I care most about is the gap between my child and Xiao Zhao's child. Compared with Xiao Zhao's child, my child's performance after going to kindergarten is really anxiety. Because children not only have poor concentration in class, but also have a very different level of reaction, expression, and self-reliance than Xiao Zhao's child in all aspects. So in the end, I decided to ask Xiao Zhao for the sake of my child to see what good methods she used to raise the child to be particularly excellent.

Results During the chat with Xiao Zhao, Xiao Zhao did not hide it. Instead, she shared with me very generously that the reason why her child is focused and has high IQ and EQ is because Xiao Zhao has insisted on letting his child play puzzle games every day since the child was about 1 and a half years old. To be honest, after hearing Xiao Zhao's words, I thought she was perfunctory, but seeing her serious expression, I realized that what she said was true, and at the same time I was extremely moved, this method is really amazing, ordinary parents, we really can't imagine it.

So with Xiao Zhao's recommendation, I also bought the same "Children's Advanced Magnetic Jigsaw" for my child. According to Xiao Zhao, this set of puzzles has not only been greatly improved after her child has used them. Moreover, since its debut, this puzzle has received a lot of recognition and praise from mothers in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, and the effect is really great. What surprised me even more was that when I brought this puzzle home, my 4-year-old son and my two-year-old sister fell in love without exception and scrambled to play the puzzle game. So why is this puzzle so good?

First of all, this set of puzzles is made in the form of paint. Each puzzle has rich and bright colors and patterns, which can easily attract children's attention and make them fall in love with them at a glance. It can unconsciously focus your child on puzzle games, so as to slowly get exercise and improve. Unlike ordinary puzzles, children are no longer interested after playing for three minutes.

Secondly, the difficulty of this puzzle also ranges from easy to difficult, which is very consistent with the age and cognitive characteristics of children. It can allow children to gradually increase their self-confidence and sense of accomplishment, and make children smarter the more they play. It will not make children feel bored because they find it too difficult or because they feel it is too simple. For children aged 1.5-8, this set of puzzles is just right.

In addition, in the process of puzzles, children can not only exercise and improve their concentration, but also their hands, eyes and brain coordination abilities, judgment and analysis abilities, logical reasoning abilities, observation and memory will also be well trained. This is really beneficial to children.

I have to say that this set of books is really useful to children, and the rich themes in the book can also improve children's knowledge and cultivate children's interest in learning. The complete set of five themes are cute animals, ocean world, dinosaur era, transportation and cosmic adventures. It can be said that children will be very interested in them.

So parents with children of appropriate age should really place an order quickly. See you next time.