Let me share with you today: Tell your children, especially your daughter, that when encountering these four situations, don’t be kind. Especially the last one.
First, walking on the street, encountering a healthy adult asking for your help, please refuse him. What do you think, there are so many people on the street and so many big men, but he doesn’t look for you, but he just looks for you, the little girl? Is there something strange? So, please tell your child not to be soft-hearted and refuse directly.
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Second. If someone asks you for help for a long time and thinks it is natural, please learn to refuse. Every day when a person gets off work, he will give a homeless man on the road one dollar. One day, he suddenly didn't want to give it to him, but the homeless man scolded him fiercely. Do you think it's annoying? So this kind of person cannot be substituted for, because your kindness is rightful in him.
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3. When the other party proposes to let you enter a relatively closed space, please do not agree. Because good people generally do not make such requests, bad people dare not do whatever they want in public places. It's hard to say if you take you to an enclosed space.
Fourth, protect yourself first, then help others. As a girl, your strength is limited. You must remember to protect yourself before helping others. You can be kind, but some people will use your kindness to hurt you. So, be sure to wear armor outside of kindness. Protect yourself.