In ancient my country, there was a serious idea of favoring boys over girls, and at that time, men had a much higher status than women. To this day, there are still some people who have this backward thinking, especially in remote areas.
Parents prefer boys over girls, which will cause serious harm to their children. The most obvious point is to support their sons in school and let their daughters drop out of school early and enter society to work. Some men even file for divorce because their wives cannot give birth to boys, which is very absurd.
"I gave birth to the fifth child, the fifth child is a boy." The mother who gave birth to 4 daughters gave birth to a child
Ms. Hu met her current husband when she was 16 years old. In 2014, she gave birth to an eldest daughter. has since given birth to a child every two years. has a total of 4 daughters, the youngest is only two years old.
After she was with her husband, discovered that her husband had a serious "benefiting boys over girls" thinking, so her husband didn't like these 4 daughters very much. Now the eldest and second brothers are already in elementary school, and the third brothers are in kindergarten. Ms. Hu has to get up at 6 o'clock every day, rides a tricycle to take her three children to school, and then take the fourth brothers to work in the factory.
After school, she will pick up the children home for dinner. Sometimes she has to go to work at night, and has to bring all four children to the factory. Although life like is very tiring, Ms. Hu gradually got used to it. Seeing that the children are becoming more and more sensible, she is full of hope for life.
But the husband doesn't think so. When the husband loses his temper, he will be harsh on her and her four daughters. The house they rents has two rooms in total. Ms. Hu lives in one room with four daughters, and her husband lives in another room by one. She is afraid that the daughters will disturb her husband. If that is the case, the children may suffer.
some months ago, her husband filed for divorce. At that time, she became pregnant with the fifth child. husband said that he would give each child a monthly support of 200 yuan, and all of these five children belong to Ms. Hu. Ms. Hu knew that the reason why her husband filed for divorce was because she gave birth to four daughters. After the incident of
was exposed, many people said that Ms. Hu's husband was irresponsible. His three daughters had already gone to school and the expenses were very high. It was not enough to only pay 200 yuan in child support per month. Now Ms. Hu has given birth to her fifth child, Fortunately, the fifth child is a boy, Ms. Hu said: " I don't know if she can keep her husband's heart. "
The husband's attitude changes 180 degrees, and his eyes are full of smiles, making people "disgusted"
November 24, Ms. Hu gave birth to a baby boy of more than 7 pounds. This is her fifth child. The first four are all daughters. This is her son this time. Ms. Hu's husband smiled when he learned the news, and 's attitude changed 180 degrees.
This behavior of the husband is disgusting. fully reflects his idea of "preferring boys over girls". His wife proposed divorce when she gave birth to four daughters, and she was very happy when she had a son. Even if such a marriage can be maintained, will she still be happy in the future?
In addition, we have to worry about the four girls when this boy was born. The father prefers boys over girls. will definitely be very good to his sons, and his attitude towards his daughters will be very bad. may not support his daughters in the future, and may even let his daughters work and earn money to support his sons to go to school and buy a house for him.
Parents should be responsible for their children to bring their children to this world, and have the responsibility and obligation to raise their children. Whether it is a second-child family or a multiple-child family, parents must treat them equally. cannot be treated differently, otherwise it will cause great harm to the children.
What harm will parents do to their children with preference for boys over girls?
Children cannot accept good family education . With the development of the times, the importance of family education has gradually been reflected. If a person has not received good family education since childhood, he will not be able to develop excellent qualities, have no interest in learning, and cannot concentrate on doing things. After entering school in the future, he will feel very difficult to study.
. Parents who prefer boys over girls only like their sons and don’t care about their daughters. They think that as long as they raise their daughters, it doesn’t matter whether they accept or not. When their daughter grows up, their shortcomings will gradually emerge, but at that time it was too late.
Entering school is easy to be ridiculed by classmates. Many parents who prefer boys over girls will not let their daughters go to school. Even if they send their daughters to school, they never care about their daughter's learning. After completing nine years of compulsory education, they let their daughters drop out of school and go home, and they are unwilling to spend a penny more.
This practice of parents will cause a great psychological burden on their daughter. The daughter will feel that she is not good enough. is not loved by her parents. will become very inferior and will easily be ridiculed by her classmates in school, which may cause psychological shadows.
Finally, I want to say that the idea of favoring boys over girls should be abandoned. Now it is no longer the old society. It is the same for a boy or a girl. Whether it is a son or a daughter, parents should treat their children well and let their children receive formal education. This is the responsibility and obligation of parents.
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