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Reading is an art of understanding life. Every book is a friend, teaching us how to view life. A person will experience many things in his life. Some things are what you like, some things are sad, some things give you a sense of accomplishment, and some things will hurt you. Everything you encounter and what you haven't encountered is included in the book. As long as you search carefully, there will always be a book that you need.
In today's society, adults are running around for work, and children work hard for learning. Parents can save money and reduce consumption, but there is only more and more to their children's education. "No matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education, it's a very popular saying." Many parents have really reached the point of " selling " education. They learn art, music, dance, and calligraphy. As long as it is useful to their children, they let their children learn. Such a young child carries his schoolbag every day, running around in different learning places. often comes with some chicken soup, "You will definitely thank yourself for your hard work now." I don't understand. Adults are not tired from working by themselves, so why do they have to torment their children like this? Is it really for the sake of their children? Do you understand your children? Is this the meaning of learning?
I often ask myself how we should raise our children . Once, when I went to a parent-teacher meeting at school, my child's Chinese teacher always emphasized the saying " Chinese, you don't need to learn Chinese. Just read more and read every day, and you can learn Chinese well ." I remember this sentence in my heart.
When I got home, I told my lover about my children's reading. My wife is also very supportive, so we have always insisted on studying with our children every day. At that time, my eldest son was in the second grade of elementary school and my younger son was in kindergarten. After dinner at night, the whole family sat at the desk and studied with them for an hour every day. Then they went to bed and we were doing our own things. At the beginning, the child could only watch for 20 minutes at a time, and then he couldn't sit still. He slowly encouraged his company with us. Two years have passed. My brother has entered the fourth grade and my younger brother has entered the second grade. They can now read for about an hour. Both children have good academic performance, and the 50-person class is in the top 3. Although the ranking does not represent anything, they have witnessed their efforts. Children, especially like to read Addison, Newton , Madame Curie , Nobel , Jobs and other famous biography. They read it over and over again.
Children are the future of the family, and who does not love their children? But how many parents can calm down and read with their children? Many parents always worry about their children's poor grades and try their best to think of all the ways they can, but they don't sit down to study with their children. The Prime Minister said with confidence, I have tried my best. Look at how much money I spent in training classes. How could I have this condition when I was in school?
Nowadays, children actually have heavy learning tasks and are not easy. Don’t add too much extra burden to your children. Why should make your children become omnipotent? Will he become a "president" in the future?
Just have one or two specialties. Besides, for such a long life, take your time, don’t pull the seedlings to help grow, and don’t be afraid that he will lose at the starting line. There is no starting line in life. If you want to be excellent, you cannot stop working hard. The same goes for children . Just keep working hard, don’t work too hard. If you crush your child, you will regret it too late when he gets bored of studying.
Just help your children develop the habit of reading, read more, and imitate the reading lives of the celebrities in the book. The future path must be their own, and you cannot replace or control their lives. love them more, let your children rest well, exercise more, love reading, and develop the habit of persisting in reading every day. I think as a parent, it is OK.
So, one of the best ways to love children is to teach them to read. My shallow cognition.