Parents and children are almost tortured crazy. Recently, the epidemic has caused children to take online classes at home for half of their time. Parents have gradually become hysterical due to their children's unconsciousness and rebellion. I can't help but scold the child, or even beat him up.
The same is true for my child. Parents who are not around in online classes will not listen carefully and will not do their homework after class. Parents have to patiently tutor homework every night, and they will be tired after twenty minutes of studying, and they can stay away from moving for two hours after watching cartoons. Like to ask why? For example, if you tell her a story about children's heroes by Jimao Letter and Wang Erxiao, she would ask her why she asked her children to do such dangerous things.
She would talk back when criticizing her, and refute all kinds of fallacies and theories. When criticizing her, she would cry when she would cry. When she would cry, her mother would be upset. When she was upset, she would be angry. When she was upset, she would get angry. She locked herself in the house and went on a hunger strike and didn't eat. I had to coax her for a long time. This child was not here to repay her kindness. She was simply a little devil who came to take revenge.
I said to my wife: You may be in menopause. Experts say that you should be patient and reasoned, and you should not educate your children in a rough way. You have treated your child's temper like a stubborn donkey, which is not conducive to your child's healthy growth.
My wife said: Your child’s temper is spoiled by you. Because she dares to be fearless because she has you protected her, I still beat and scold her lightly. Experts are all people who speak without back pain while standing. Whoever takes care of the baby knows how hard it is. When we were young, we would be beaten if we were not obedient. We would not be able to make a weapon without being polished.
I said: We may have been beaten when we were young. The environment was different at that time. My parents were busy with work and had a lot of pressure in life. Parents did not have the patience to educate their children. As long as they were naughty, they would definitely be beaten. Now that the living conditions are better and the learning environment is better, children should have a happy childhood.
Wife said: The competition is so fierce now. Children of rich people are attending various extracurricular classes. If we don’t strictly require our children, fail to get into a good university, and fail to find a good job, it will ruin the children’s life. In the future, when I take care of my child, you are not allowed to spoil her anymore. If you don’t eat, you will be hungry until she admits her mistake, so that she can correct her personality.
I don’t know what to say either. I don’t want to quarrel with her, and I have quarreled with her. I think back to my childhood, and I was quite happy at that time. My grades were not very good when I was a child. My parents were busy with work and didn’t care about my grades. I never tutored me for homework, and I didn’t have extracurricular classes. I just know how to play with a bunch of friends all day long, and my childhood life is so happy.
Now living conditions are better, with mobile phones, computers, TVs, and games to entertain. Now I call for a reduction in burden every day, but the child is worried about studying and doing homework and is depressed all day long. Who stole the happiness of his children's childhood?
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