Of course, children will also have their own bottom line, but when children face their bottom line in danger, they cannot make obvious resistance like adults, because they cannot directly object or criticize their thoughts. Over time, they will become unwilling to communicate. The most common reaction is that they are unwilling to speak, become depressed at home, but can handle it freely in front of friends.
When parents find out such a situation, they should pay attention, because this will be very unfavorable to the physical and mental growth of their children. In the long run, it will not only have a negative impact on family harmony, but also cause children to have many psychological problems or psychological diseases during their growth.
So, how should we communicate better with our children?
First of all, you must have an equal attitude when communicating with your children. This attitude is the basis for communication with it. It is like meeting a leader of a high-ranking company at work. How can such a class distance become an environment where you can talk to?
Children are more likely to have this kind of class opposition psychologically, so if you want to communicate with your children, you must not have a lofty attitude, and you may even think that your children have matured and grown up. Such thoughts may make your children feel that they cannot communicate with their parents, and even feel that their parents cannot understand themselves, which will eventually create a distance between their parents and their children.
Secondly, you must be more tolerant and patient with your children. No matter what stage the child is at now, what kind of "unique" ideas and behaviors you have, especially when the child already has his own independent consciousness, you must have more tolerant thoughts and not criticize your children subjectively if there are any problems. First of all, you must right your mentality, and then you can discuss with your children with a peaceful attitude, guide your children to bravely express their ideas and express their ideas and ideas.
Come again, parents and friends should also learn to use some chat skills to communicate and communicate with their children, so as to achieve more effective communication and effectively alleviate the problem of poor communication. For example, speaking less and listening more, being a listener for a child, giving more opportunities for children to express, and at the same time give more affirmation and praise to the opinions and suggestions put forward by the children, and encourage children to cultivate their own ideas and creativity. At the same time, when children have some ideas that we think are indeed a very good idea, we must encourage and support and accompany the children to complete bravely, so that children will have a sense of gain and achievement, instead of always pouring cold water on their children.
Then, try to leave more time to accompany your children. Maybe our work is really busy, maybe we are really very irritable, but we are adults, and the problems we face should not be an excuse to withhold time with our children, and companionship is also one of the important factors that affect children's confidence and emotions.
Scientific practice has proved that parents who have more time with their children will obviously get more emotional relationships and relationships between elders and younger, and have higher communication efficiency. Children are more willing to express emotions and ideas with their parents, and the family will naturally be more harmonious.
I am Dog Brother, a person who has had the same troubles with everyone. Everyone is welcome to discuss and make progress together.
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