short video platform. She is still fighting for her first child at the age of 42.
Open her top video, and looking around, it is a shocking number.
html got married at the age of 223 and was diagnosed with primary infertility a few years later.
15 years have undergone hysteroscopy surgery, 8 times of water circulation, 4 times of imaging, , and 1 time of uterine clearance.
started to do test tubes in 2018, and 23 eggs were retrieved in 6 years. Since then, the injections were piled together like a hill, and the medicines they drank together can also flow into a river.
In the bustling and complex era, people's lives are also very diverse.
The traditional concept of marriage and childbirth is not necessarily the only melody of life,
But I still admire the people who have devoted time and energy and worked hard for it.
people should do this, and strive forward for the life they want.
The same goes for being a mother.
sisters, whether you want a child depends on you
I think an elderly mother, but fortunately, I gave birth to a second child at an age, which is not as tortuous as Xiaoqi.
As a working woman, she used to be full of goals and KPIs.
wears professional makeup, wears high heels, and step on the smooth and smooth marble floor.
lives a life of "talking and laughing are all the same, and international communication".
I once thought that this was a successful life.
The eldest son was born in 2011. When he was less than three years old, the leader said that I was stationed abroad for half a year.
The day after leaving, my son knew nothing, and he waved his hand and said, "Goodbye Mom".
He thought I would hug him and fall asleep at night as usual.
Who knows that all you have to wait for is a video call.
I still remember him, but he didn't know how to express himself very much, and he cried with a wow.
That's it, I missed the cutest and most beautiful time for the boss.
See you again half a year later, he tilted his head, laughed first, then cried.
As an old mother, I feel mixed feelings.
What does the life I want look like?
In fact, having one more child is not an easy task.
Because pregnancy, maternity leave, and breastfeeding period will inevitably affect work.
more than one point of expense.
And the elderly should also take care of one more child.
When I decided to have another child, the sounds were caused by various.
Someone said, I admire you, I am very brave.
Someone said, if you have a son, aren’t you afraid of having another son?
Some people say that it will affect promotion, think about it carefully.
Then, I ignored all these sounds. I have actually thought about these questions about
.
Courage is commendable, but it is actually not considered courage.
I saw many people born in the 1980s protecting their sick parents in the hospital. They lost their jobs because they were unable to go to work, and their children at home were hungry... I seemed to see the difficulties my son will face in the future.
At that time, the family only allowed one child to have a child, which reduced the financial pressure of raising children.
However, the reduced pressure returned to the children who had exclusive resources back then. How irony is this?
I would rather be a little harder and tired and take the risk of taking this risk.
As long as I have brothers and sisters, my children will not need to face these alone in the future.
If there are these risks, then it's all over my generation.
Have another son? What's wrong?
I don’t know when it was a negative proposition that having a son became an inverse proposition.
The young father waiting outside the delivery room was happy when he saw the girl coming out, and the boy was thrust with a face.
The mother who had a caesarean section heard the doctor say it was a boy, so she said: Doctor, please put it back.
Those who gave birth to a boy in one child dare not give birth again, for fear that they would be a boy again.
Gone with the times when a boy was born in the 1980s was gone forever,
It seems that it was not a child, but a "monster".
Thanks to the progress of the times and gives girls and boys the same opportunities and treatment,
But this does not mean that boys and girls must have one high and one low. Once the girl goes up, the boys have to go down.
The pressure of a boy buying a house and a car when he gets married is purely "fallacies".
If men and women are really equal, why should we give all the pressure on the house and car to the man’s family?
As a woman, you can’t just ask for rights.
I am a woman, I want equality, but not that kind of humility and advantage in terms of face.
What I want is to "evenly match" with my partner in life and advance and retreat together.
will affect promotion.
promotion, sometimes such goals are real and illusory.
The real thing is that after the salary increase, it is real money.
illusion is that when you look back on your life in the future and see your so-called achievements, you have done several projects for a company .
And your general, the manager's name, leaves that area, is a p, and you can't count anywhere.
Are you still so enthusiastic?
To put it bluntly, who would rather bow down, pretend to behave and live with a mask than just a few pieces of silver?
Don’t ask me how to see through the promotion. When I can talk about this well, it’s a ridiculous story.
or my mother-in-law’s classic saying: How much money is enough? If you have enough food and drink, don’t you just want to live a happy life?
So, let go of these, sisters, it’s not that others will give birth to you if you give birth to a child, you will give birth, and it’s not that others will not give birth to you if you don’t give birth to you if you don’t give birth to you if you don’t.
In the final analysis, it is your child. If you have to endure the pain of ten months of pregnancy, you will also have the joy of watching the child grow up. In the future, he will still be rewarded.
Everything, think about it yourself and let those gossips go to hell.
, right?
Another pair of sons came from the second child.
is now nine and a half months old, lively and cute.
The house has become lively again.
This time the old lady has something to do and will not attend any hello training every day. She gets plastic basins and distributes eggs. I don’t have to worry that she buys me a bunch of secret recipes sold by "Tibet Living Buddhas" for me.
started to resume work in August this year and found that only one of the colleagues who said they wanted a second child had succeeded, while the others were hesitating and wasted a few years. This matter still needs to be left unstoppable, which is actually very harsh.
Now I like to show off my photos of them showing off their second and third children after work.
envy them?
, will you give birth to yourself?
didn't think about it?
Then think about it again.
Anyway, women only have a few years, and time is unforgiving. Never feel that time is particularly favorable to you. A body in the age of forty will never have the energy of the age of twenty or thirty, and the quality of the egg will be much worse than before.
can be worked back and spelled again, and the golden characters will always shine.
The matter of giving birth to a baby is expired. Once you miss it, it will be difficult for to deal with .
was written to the 42-year-old sister
Finally, it was written to the 42-year-old sister and many sisters who were running around on the road to seeking children.
Don’t care about being looked at by others.
has a healthy and lovely child. Cultivate TA to grow up healthy. This is our life goal.
short video platform has various sounds.
Someone ridiculed you for being so old and still fighting for this matter. Can you adopt it?
Some people say they want their children to put on heavy makeup.
But more people are encouraged and cheered.
People who work hard are always disliked by many people.
But only those who work hard can create miracles.
I believe that your baby has come to you.
Come on, sisters!
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