Parents almost all hope that their children will be promising and outstanding, but everything is not absolute. If their children are too promising, it may not be a good thing for parents. This is a true story. Lao Wei is a teacher from a small county town. His son was admitted to

Almost all parents hope that their children will be promising and outstanding, but everything is not absolute. If their children are too promising, it may not be a good thing for parents.

This is a true story. Lao Wei is a teacher from a small county town. His son was admitted to Peking University . After graduation, he stayed in Beijing to work. However, Lao Wei sighed all day long and often complained, "I don't have this son!" It turns out that after his son worked in Beijing, he has almost never returned to his hometown to visit his parents for more than 10 years. Lao Wei and his wife are old and have a headache and fever, and they can't count on their son far away. This son seems to be nothing to the old Wei and his wife!

There is something even more amazing. When the parents passed away, their children were not around, and their funerals were also handled by relatives.

Every family hopes that their children will have a promising future, but they are afraid that they will be too promising, so they will fly away and be lonely when they are old.

I think if you only have one child, it’s enough for the child to be ordinary, and it’s good to have a little success. He found an ordinary job at the door of his home, and when he was old, he could live up to his children and enjoy the joy of family.

If you have multiple children, there are many options. Leave one child at home to accompany you, and the other children go out to work hard, as long as the child can remember to go home, don’t worry about how far he has gone.

The child is not very promising, maybe it is a good thing for parents because they are here to repay their kindness. Children who are not very promising cannot fly far away, but can stay with their parents and take care of them all the time; children who are too promising generally will not be trapped by their parents. They are already thousands of miles away after work, and they can still see their traces, as if they are kites with a string.

Poor parents in the world. As parents, they all hope that their children will be both promising and filial to their parents. However, this matter is difficult to be complete in ancient times.