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Leave your daughter-in-law and granddaughter who are in confinement and hide from your daughter's house to take care of your children. Will you be able to support your mother-in-law like this?
says that the daughter-in-law has no blood relationship with the mother-in-law. The mother-in-law is willing to give sincerely and treat her daughter-in-law kindly, and the daughter-in-law will be grateful. If the mother-in-law is unwilling to give her sincerity and is unwilling to help, the daughter-in-law can only dare to be angry but not speak out.
Ten years ago, Zhong Shan gave birth to a daughter. The mother-in-law who originally promised to come to take care of her confinement period, but after taking care of her for three days, she left Zhong Shan and her granddaughter who were in confinement, and hid from her daughter's house to take care of her children, and even shouted that she did not need Zhong Shan to take care of her elderly care. Ten years later, my mother-in-law asked for retirement and slapped herself.
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When Zhong Shan married her husband, her mother-in-law was not happy, thinking that Zhong Shan’s family was not good and she had a younger brother who was in college as a burden. But my husband insisted on his own, and my mother-in-law couldn't have a good time with her son, so she had to agree.
It’s just that my mother-in-law agreed to the marriage, but she hated Zhong Shan but there was no conflict at all. What is the mother-in-law’s attitude towards Zhong Shan before marriage, and the same is true after marriage, without any change. Even if Zhong Shan can please her mother-in-law, she won’t appreciate it.
When Zhong Shan was pregnant, she had a very bad morning sickness and did not slowly stabilize until 5 months. My husband asked my mother-in-law to take care of Zhong Shan, but my mother-in-law refused and asked Zhong Shan to take care of her parents.
Later, Zhong Shan finally gave birth to a daughter. Under the slander of her husband, her mother-in-law finally agreed to take care of her confinement. As a result, she had only been here for three days and left in a hurry. In order to avoid Zhong Shan, she simply hid from her daughter's house and helped take care of her grandson.
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After the mother-in-law suddenly hid in her sister-in-law's house, no one took care of Zhong Shan and her daughter. After her husband urged her to ask for her and her mother-in-law refused to come back, Zhong Shan could only ask her parents to take care of her confinement. Later, the child was also handed over to his parents to take care of, and the mother-in-law said that there was nothing to bring about in a girl's movie.
The selfishness and indifference of mother-in-law completely hurt Zhong Shan's heart. After the confinement period, Zhong Shan firmly told her husband that her mother-in-law has no obligation to take care of her daughter-in-law during confinement period, so I will not have no obligation to support her mother-in-law in the future.
Whether your husband listens or not, Zhong Shan strictly enforces this. Unless necessary, do not get in touch with your in-laws. During the holidays, she rarely goes back to her husband's house. But she didn't object to her husband taking the child back to her in-laws' house.
I thought my mother-in-law would live in her daughter's house for the rest of her life and rely on her daughter to support her elderly care. Who knew that after 10 years, after my mother-in-law raised her two grandchildren, she came back and begged Zhong Shan for retirement, saying that her mother-in-law lived in her son-in-law's house, which was not a long-term solution.
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The mother-in-law also cried to her husband, saying that she had worked tiringly at her daughter's house for 10 years. In the end, the son-in-law wanted to take his parents to support her, and let her mother-in-law find her son to support her. He is a son-in-law and has no obligation.
My husband felt very distressed when he heard this and quickly wanted to take his mother-in-law back. After hearing this, Zhong Shan said disapprovingly, "I have no obligation." My mother-in-law hid from her daughter's house when she was confinement, but now the child is old and she doesn't need her to take care of her. Let her go wherever she comes.
The husband couldn't help but get angry with Zhong Shan, saying that his parents were the only son, and his sister was married, so their parents naturally had to ask their son to support him. Zhong Shan asked her husband, what about the parents who helped us take care of our children for 10 years? How should you place it?
The husband stammered and said, "It's not that my parents-in-law don't have a biological son, and their parents should have found their own son to support their elderly care. What's the matter with finding their daughter and son-in-law to support their elderly care?"
Hearing her husband's words, Zhong Shan could no longer help, and had a big fight with her husband and said, either the couple divorced and the husband would go to support his parents; or he would send his parents away.
Today’s topic:
Do you support Zhong Shan’s approach?
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