Today is the 23rd day of the 11th lunar month 2022.11.16 Qing
An An Mama Diary 161
I learned yesterday that the child was back and was so happy that he fell asleep when he got home. He hugged him before going to wash it. I kept hearing the child sniffing in the middle of the night, but I didn't sleep well. He woke up after moving for a moment.
Maybe it was because I was breathing too uncomfortable, so I asked me to do it for him, use a cotton swab to pass through my nostrils, breathing comfortably, and then I went to bed again. It wasn't hard to sleep, and we both slept.
When I woke up, the sun was so strong that I quickly got up and packed up to take him to school. The child asked me: Mom, which pair of shoes you are wearing. I said my mom won't change her shoes. Because I came back later, I simply wore cotton slippers and went out with . The child said that his mother's shoes were not beautiful and he had to change to a pair of beautiful shoes. I said you hope your mom will be more beautiful when she goes to your school, right? The child said yes. Well, the old mother had to go out with her shoes and changed her shoes obediently.
I kept thinking on the way, it seems that when I started school this year, my child began to have requirements for clothes and shoes, and liked to wear beautiful clothes, and I said beautiful clothes. Children are all paying attention to their image, so should we pay more attention?
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"See the status at completion" in advance and you will definitely succeed.
If you want to achieve a certain career, you should always describe the ideal state of the career. At the same time, you should think repeatedly about the process of realizing this ideal until the process of "seeing". This is very important
Think in your mind, think again, and perform simulation exercises repeatedly, and you can see the future "want to do this". Describe this ideal, elevate the beginning idea into a strong desire, and constantly think 24 hours a day, the image of success is clearly emerging in front of you. This is very important
When you have a clear impression of every detail of the matter, the final result must be successful
Seize every opportunity to hone your "sensitivity"
The delicate "sensitivity" is indispensable in "implementing perfectionism" at work. The "sensitivity" is too poor and slow to react. Even if the product has reminded you that a problem has occurred and prompted you to solve the problem, you may still be unaware of it. The best method and opportunity to solve the problem is not "best" but "perfect"
"best" is the best compared to others, it is a relative value, and there is also "best" in a very low-level corner. "Perfection" is different from "best". It is absolute. It is not compared with others, but it has reliable value itself. There is nothing in the world that can surpass "perfection". "Perfectionism" is not "better", but "supreme"
Understand
Let reflection end for "perfection"
"Working hard to work hard", coupled with "reflection every day", can your perfectionism be put into the most beautiful end. Suppress the "self, "release the "true self", and make the altruistic mind active. This kind of homework is "reflection"
In this way, ask yourself to read a little book every day, persevere, come on