Why can’t the child learn well?
First, there is an idea, but there is no way; second, there is a problem, but there is no discovery; third, there is a goal, but there is no action.
I have an idea, there is no way
If you ask your child, would you like to study well? All children will say they want.
But if you ask them, how to do it specifically to learn well? Often, I don’t know anything about it. Most of them will only say: Listen carefully, complete homework on time, and practice more questions in daily life. Are these methods? yes. Are these methods good enough to learn? Of course not, it's too simple.
Lincoln said: If I were given 5 hours to cut down a tree, I would use 3 hours to sharpen my axe.
If you don’t have a specific method when you are learning, it is equivalent to cutting a tree with bare hands, and you will only get half the result with twice the effort.
What is the learning method? There are secrets that can achieve twice the result with half the effort in the entire chain and all elements of learning. For example, how to preview, how to listen to classes, how to take notes, how to organize wrong questions, how to analyze test papers, how to memorize, how to summarize, how to find rules...
Every time you master one more method, it will increase by 1% in one link. If countless 1% are added up, you will gain a significant competitive advantage. There is a problem with
. If you have a problem and cannot discover it in time, it is equivalent to using a buggy bucket to collect water. This is not a result of half the effort, but a waste of effort.
If you ask your child, you got 70 points in the exam, what are the problems? Most of the answers: I don’t have solid basic knowledge, I’m careless... Is this a problem? yes. Is this the cause of the problem? Not. Not solid basic knowledge and carelessness are just the result. Why do these problems occur? This is the root cause you should explore the most.
Learning is the process of discovering problems, analyzing problems and solving problems. If you can't find out where the problem lies, all your efforts will be useless.
has a goal, no action
If you don’t have a goal, the wind in any direction will not be a good wind.
Even if you have a goal, if you cannot take action and keep moving towards the goal, your goal is just a castle in the air, a fantasy, and a dream.
Many students have life ideals. But when you ask what goals you have in the near future, what plans you have every day, and whether you can achieve them every day, you often can't answer them.
Everyone has beautiful dreams, but the goal is too far away and dreams of space. If you don’t take action, the goal will never be achieved.
There are goals but no actions, there is no way to do it if you have ideas, and there are no problems but no discovery. These are the three mountains that hinder children's growth and progress.
Yang Jiang Mr. Yang Jiang has a famous saying: "Your problem is that you don't read much but think too much. "
The biggest problem for most children is that they think too much and do too little . Why?
first, they don’t know what to do to achieve their goals. Therefore, discovering your own problems is the first step. Only by knowing where the gap between yourself and your goals can you be targeted and work hard effectively. This is not a useless work.
second, they don't know how to do it. Therefore, you must find specific ways to improve your grades, find the rules of learning, and see the results of learning. This way you can learn twice the result with half the effort.
Third, the goal is too far away, dreaming of space, and being out of touch with the present. Therefore, it is necessary to break down the big goals into small goals and break down the long-term plans into daily plans. plan is a way to connect the future and the present. What you do every day is moving towards your future .
Milan Kundera said: "Never think that we can escape. Every step of ours determines the final ending. Our feet are moving towards the end we choose. "
How you live your day, how you live your life.
How to achieve your goals?
found the problem
There is a little white rabbit , and I go to the pond to fish every day. I caught a fish for a long time, but I didn't catch a single fish. Finally one day, an carp popped out of the pond and said to him: Hey, rabbit, stupid hat, don’t tease us with carrots anymore.
Repeating old behavior will only lead to old results. If the behavior does not change, the result will not change. If you want to get different results, you need to change your behavior. Any new behavior has a greater chance of success than the old behavior.
If you want to truly solve the problem and improve your grades, you must first find out where your shortcomings are. It is useless to not find the shortcomings. How to really find the problem
? Ask three consecutive "whys".
For example, why is this question wrong? Because of sloppy. Why sloppy? Because of mental calculation, I didn't start writing. Why not write a calculation? Because of the tight time, there is no time to write the process. When you ask this step, you can find that the problem is that the daily practice is not enough, so the calculation speed and accuracy are not enough.
Of course, there are many reasons for being careless. This is just a demonstration. By asking three "whys", it can help you really find the root of the problem.
Find more methods
There is a mathematician who learns from firefighters how to put out fires. After the firefighters said it, the mathematician carefully recorded every step and learned it all. At this time, the firefighter asked a question: "What if there is no fire?" The mathematician said: "Then I will light a fire."
Charlie Munger said: People with a hammer in their hands look like nails when they see any problem.
There must be more than three solutions in everything. The more methods, the more choices. Choice means competent. When looking at something, the more ideas you have, the broader your perspective, the deeper your understanding, the faster your understanding, and the more accurate your memory.
If you want to truly improve your learning efficiency and make twice the result with half the effort, you should have as many tools as possible at hand. The iron pestle is ground into a needle, and Yugong moves the mountain. His spirit is commendable, but the method is wrong and his efforts are in vain. How to find multiple methods for
? It is to learn from one example and learn from one example and use the false to cultivate the truth.
Learn any knowledge or do any questions, don’t be satisfied with finding a way of thinking, be sure to think about it: Are there any other possibilities? Is there any other solution? Is there any underlying rule that can learn one question and solve thousands of questions?
summary and revision is not only not to spend more time, but to save time and save time in repeated and inefficiently practice questions and make-up lessons in the future, so that you can truly learn.
Decomposition target
British cycling team has only won one gold medal in 1908. In 2003, Dave Brasford became the team's performance director, changing it all. From 2007 to 2017, the British cycling team won 178 World Championships, 66 gold medals in the Olympic and Paralympics, and five championships in the Tour de France.
How did the miracle happen? They redesigned the seats, tires, and clothes; monitored the training response of each rider through biofeedback sensors; they selected the massage oil to recover muscles the fastest, and they customized different pillows and mattresses...
Bresford said: "We broke down all the links of the bike and improved each part by 1%. When you summarize all the improvements, you will find a significant improvement overall."
The same is true for learning. If you want to achieve your goal, you must disassemble the entire process and all elements of learning (preview, listening to classes, homework, summary, review, review after exam... textbooks, notes, homework books, wrong questions, test papers, calculation papers...) , increase by 1% in each link, and add up to the point that it is enough to gain a significant competitive advantage.
Make a plan
Motoichi Yamada won the International Marathon Championship for two consecutive years in 1984 and 1986. When the reporter asked him why he achieved such a result, he only said one sentence, "By the opponent with wisdom." It puzzled everyone. Ten years later, the mystery was finally solved. He said in his autobiography:
Before each competition, I had to take a car to carefully look at the route of the competition and draw the more eye-catching signs along the way, such as the first sign is a bank; the second sign is a big tree; the third sign is a red house... so that it will be drawn until the end of the schedule. After the competition begins , I rushed towards the first target at a speed of 100 meters. After reaching the first target, I rushed towards the second target at the same speed. The
0 kilometers schedule was broken down into several small targets and easily completed it. At first, I didn't understand this principle. I set my target on the flag on the finish line more than 40 kilometers away. As a result, I was exhausted when I ran more than ten kilometers. I was frightened by the distance ahead.
Decompose big problems into small problems, disassemble complex problems into simple problems, and disassemble multi-step tasks into single-step tasks.
The goal that others can achieve when taking two or three steps, you can complete it in ten steps. This is not only not embarrassing, but it is actually the great wisdom of life.
haste will not be achieved.
Develop habits
Mrs. Thatcher said: "Pay attention to your thoughts, because it will become words. Pay attention to your words, because it will become action. Pay attention to your actions, as it will become a habit. Pay attention to your habits, as it will become character. Pay attention to your personality, because it will determine your destiny. "
Habits are subconscious behaviors. Once you develop bad study habits, you will repeat them constantly, making mistakes. For example, when writing in the exam, you don’t need to calculate the calculation paper, you often do not need to be calculating, you always lose all your thoughts when reviewing questions, you have no idea about big questions, and you make mistakes in the calculation of small questions...
Carelessness is a habit. You are careless, but you cannot suddenly become careful during the exam; fooling is a habit. If you deal with things in the daily life, you will be exposed in the exam; being lazy to use your brain is a habit, and you can’t understand questions. Questions, when the exam is inspiration, you can suddenly figure it out. This is a fantasy.
Habits determine personality, and personality determines destiny.
The fate of countless people actually starts from many small places and is expanded bit by bit . The changes are slim and you cannot perceive it, but when you find that the gap with others is very obvious, if you want to catch up, you may come. It's not enough.
I found that many children with poor grades are actually very good, but the gap between them and excellent students is very big in terms of learning mentality and learning habits.
Before I tutor, I would do a questionnaire first. The results are without exception. You can guess the children's academic performance from the learning behavior itself. Those students who are at the top in the grade have almost full scores in their learning behavior; while students with low learning behavior must be very low.
process determines the result, the process is wrong, the result is wrong.
It is actually very simple to learn well. No talent is required. As long as uses the right method, and does the right thing , no one cannot become good.
learning is to discover problems, analyze problems, and solve problems. Discovering problems is the starting point for solving all problems and the beginning of life progress.
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