During the epidemic, it became the norm for children to take online classes at home. But many parents complain: "Children must be guarded by their online classes, otherwise they will secretly play with their computers and mobile phones. The homework assigned by the teacher must be urged continuously, otherwise don't expect the children to do it well by themselves. In short, big and small things must be supervised by adults."
actually, this is a manifestation of children's lack of self-control. Not to mention children, many adults cannot be self-disciplined themselves: they want to lose weight, but they can't control their mouths; they want to exercise, but they can't move their legs, and they want to go to bed early, but they lie in bed and pick up their mobile phones to browse...
American management master Stephen Covey once said: "People who are not self-disciplined are slaves of lust, desire and feelings." From this we can see that self-discipline is a necessary quality for everyone, and it can even be said that everyone's life height is closely related to self-discipline.
However, it is very difficult to overcome laziness and become self-disciplined, which is difficult for adults to do, let alone children: they are unwilling to get up in bed in the morning, they want to see toys, they want to eat snacks, they are addicted to games and do their homework...
, but this does not mean that parents can ignore their children's self-discipline abilities. If a child can have the qualities of self-discipline, he can learn independently without the supervision of his parents and the supervision of his teachers. Over time, it will be difficult for the child to not be excellent.
There are no children born with self-discipline in the world. Those enviable "children from other people's families" are all cultivated bit by bit by bit by bit by bit by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little by little At the age of 2-5, children will enter the "sensitivity period of order". They are self-centered and like to do some exaggerated behaviors to attract other people's attention. If parents are at this age, they can cultivate their children's unique sense of order by reading picture books and telling stories, and they can easily cultivate "self-disciplined children".
, a famous British children's book writer Alison Falkanikis and illustrator Claire Georgery, who has won many international awards, is a set of parent-child picture books suitable for children aged 2-5.
This set of picture books has won the "White Crow Award" with a high value content, and also won the "Best Illustration Children's Book Award" in the Greek Public Bookstore. After it was introduced to China by Beidou Children's Books, it was also unanimously recommended by Wang Zhigeng, director of the National Library Children's Library, Li Yifan, associate researcher at Beijing Institute of Educational Sciences, and Cheng Lixia, a certified teacher in the United States Montessori and senior kindergarten teacher. It has a very popular reputation. Both parents and children cannot put down this set of picture books.
This set of "Meeting Growth and Self-Discipline Children's Development Picture Book" has a total of 4 volumes, namely "Eat! Good health" and "Be brave! Little man" "It's time to take a shower! Fragrant" "Cleaning the room! It's so clean."
The stories told in these four books are all about a little boy named Yake. Through Ak's various typical rebellious behaviors, the child resonates with: It turns out that Ak is the same as "me"! As children learn more about Yake, the easier it is to treat him as a friend in life. Seeing Yake develop a good habit of self-discipline little by little, children will naturally learn and imitate him simultaneously, and eventually grow up.
"It's time to eat! "Good Body" tells the benefits of common foods such as yogurt, fruit, eggs, and milk vividly and interestingly with exaggerated humorous techniques. With a strong sense of picture, the child will be moved when he sees it. From then on, he falls in love with eating and no longer has to chase after him and feed him.
"Clean the room! "It's so clean" lets children understand the necessity of tidying up their rooms. When adults ask their children to tidy up their rooms, they can also learn from the words in the book and say to their children: "Like a brave lion, let the things in the room be obedient and obedient." "Check your socks quickly, they are scattered on the floor, like a snake, which scares me."
"Bath! Fragrance" compares the child to Fox and mouse in the room, leaving rows of dirty footprints, and also drew cute little bacteria in the child's dirty hair. After reading the picture book, the child obediently took the toy to take a bath.
"Be brave! Little Man" will encourage children to learn to be brave: the big monster outside the window is actually the treetops blown by the breeze, and the puppy barking on the roadside wants to play with us. As long as you are a brave child, the shining stars and the smiling moon will illuminate the way home.
In addition to four picture books, this set of books also comes with a "21-day self-disciplined child development table ", on one side, it is a tabletop game, on the other side, it is a 21-day self-disciplined child development record.
tabletop game has 4 character chess, which can allow the whole family to participate. You can add points when you transfer to good habits, and you will lose points when you don't have bad habits. In the game, children will deepen their understanding of good and bad habits. And the "21-day self-disciplined child development table" can give children Formulating positive feedback can encourage children to stick to good habits, overcome bad habits, and become a "self-disciplined child" that everyone praises.
Japanese artist Yoshi Yamamoto once said this: "I never believe in lazy freedom. The freedom I yearn for is a broader life achieved through diligence and hard work. That kind of freedom is precious and valuable. "
Children who do not know how to be self-disciplined always give up halfway when doing things, have goals but no action, and will never get along with words such as success and excellence. Only those children who know how to be self-disciplined can create their own wonderful life!
Click the link below to buy this set of good books~
only costs 59 yuan, and you will be given a self-disciplined baby~
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