Dear big baby: Mom is sorry for you.
Why do mom apologizes to you here? It’s because my mother used to use you as a punching bag because she quarreled with your dad. So my mother has always felt very guilty now. It is a matter between us adults who quarrel with my dad. Why should I vent my anger on you? Mom didn’t have this awareness at that time, thinking that you were my child, and I should teach you a lesson. Now Mom feels how stupid she is.
I know you have forgiven your mother because you love her mother and mother knows it. At that time, I took you to my father’s workplace, and I had a bad attitude towards you in just a few months. When you come home during the Chinese New Year, after grandma takes you the next day, you don’t want to sleep with your mother. Mom was young at that time because your grandma played mahjong and I took you. Then you want to find grandma again, and mom will hit you. Later, you really didn't want to come to your mother's room and slept here.
When my mother got engaged to your father, you were there. Later, I gave birth to you and may need to be done with it. Therefore, the mother always has a quarrel, and her temper is very irritable, but your father has a bad temper. Fortunately, your grandma is quite good. Although your father has a bad temper, he knows that he is wrong every time he quarrels, and he always corrects it. Now your dad and I almost don’t quarrel, and my mom’s temper is getting better. Then I began to be patient with you, and you started to stick to me, and I was very relieved! But you may have forgotten the harm that mom has hurt you before, but mom still remembers it. It is the first time I have been a mom. If there is something wrong, you must tell mom!
Mom has now watched a lot of educational videos and articles. Mom tries to be a qualified mother and no longer loses her temper at you casually. Mom will manage your marriage well. Mom doesn’t expect you to be successful in the future. Mom, I hope you have a happy childhood! The excellent qualities you have are something that my mother never had when she was a child, baby!
Mom used to not know how to live her own life well, because not everyone's life is not so perfect. So my mother had flaws in her heart at that time and was not in contrast. So mom loves you well as she can.
Love your mom!