Cherish the process of getting along with each other to understand children. Parents can understand the crying of their children during lactation and , which is the basis for understanding their children's psychology in the future.
copy book check-in day 66. Today I continue to read the relevant knowledge of "Family is the starting point of life" by Teacher Li Meijin's "Psychological Support". The following is the excerpt from today:
Nowadays, the social environment is very complicated, and parents find it is becoming more and more difficult to raise children, not as easy as in the past. Many parents are very anxious and will quickly find an expert when their children have problems.
But any expert has a problem that cannot be solved for you, that is, whether your child is being taken care of, raised and accompanied by you every day.
The process of raising children is an extremely important basis, because the blood relationship between parents and children cannot be replaced by anyone. However, many parents throw their children to others to raise since childhood, or they need to change their caregivers several times in a day.
is turned around by parents, grandpa, grandma, nanny and kindergarten teachers. The amount of time the child should have spent with his parents has been replaced, and the influence of parents on his children has naturally been weakened.
As children grow up, TV, mobile phone and other electronic products have to join in the process of companionship. Therefore, the most familiar words that some children learn first are advertising slogans, and their favorite characters are certain images on TV.
During the growth process of a child, the person who affects him and the person he agrees with appears uncertain, which leads to a different attitude and behavior from the parents.
Some parents find that their children have completely different values from themselves. More than ten years later, those parents who were neglecting to accompany each other thought that their children were always obedient and well-behaved. Until one day, the police came to the door and found that they did not understand the children at all.
Raising children does not mean preaching every day, nor does it mean taking care of everything. Companionship is also a kind of nurturing, and what it requires is a process.
Parent-child relationship most requires careful care, patient companionship, and careful observation. This is the prerequisite for understanding children.
Raising children, people often focus on the results. Often ignore or want to skip trivial and harsh processes. Parents should not think that their children are the same when they grow up, it just focuses on the results. Parents from families with multiple children have experience and know that the children they raise are different from those they don’t raise, and the children they raise are closer to themselves.
Accompanying children to grow up is also the process of parents' self-growth and maturity. People often say that only by raising children can you know the kindness of parents. This kind of juice is a qualitative leap and another kind of maturity.
What are your good opinions on the company of your children? Welcome to leave a message to discuss
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