Since ancient times, there has been a tradition in China that is "confinement", that is, from the first day after delivery to 42 days. This period is to help the mother fully recover to the pre-pregnancy period. Most mothers have a kind of mentality that their mothers should take

Since ancient times, there has been a tradition in China that is " confinement ", that is, from the first day after delivery to 42 days. This period is to help the mother fully recover to the pre-pregnancy period. Most mothers have a kind of mentality that their mothers should take care of themselves more carefully than their mother-in-law, and always think that if they can go back to their parents' home for confinement, they will be "safe".

However, the customs in each place are different, and there is a "speak" circulating in some places, that is, a married daughter is like splashed out of water, and she cannot go back to her parents' home to "raising confinement", because a woman has a baby is like walking in the "gate of hell", and it is a matter of seeing the good news. If she returns to her parents' home, it is equivalent to bringing "bad luck " to her parents' home. Is such a feudal "legend" really like this? But the reason behind it is even more heartbreaking!

1. It is not advisable for mothers to pass through confinement period to " to relocate ". Where to go to confinement in

, we have to discuss in advance. When you are discharged from the hospital after delivery, you will be in place at one time, and you will not be able to "relocate". For women, should reduce the movement of the environment during the confinement period. Originally, raising confinement is for rest, and then going back and forth in the middle will not achieve the purpose of "raising confinement in vain", especially when the weather is cold, you are prone to wind and cold.

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If the mother's family is not an only child family and has a brother or brother, then it would be even more inappropriate to "raising confinement" in her family. In ancient times, it was difficult for a clean official to make a decision. If this daughter goes to her parents' family, then even the most reasonable sister-in-law will inevitably be a little unhappy. She was originally harmonious and harmonious family relationships, so it was not worth it. She had a very bad life during confinement, and her emotions were also one of the factors that affected her confinement recovery.

Reason 2: It is not conducive to increasing the relationship between husband and wife

When you return to your parents' home during the confinement period, then the husband cannot live in the parents' home. The care of the mother's mother falls on the mother's family, and the father can only come to have a meal occasionally, and it is not easy to run here every day. He goes to work during the day and runs back and forth after get off work. It is most reasonable to have a father take care of his mother during the confinement period. When facing his wife who gave birth to a child, let his father know the hard work. The mother will also feel the love and warmth of her husband in getting the care of her father. Everything she does is worth it.

Even if you are busy at work during the day, you can see your husband after get off work, and you can feel relieved even if you just have a word of concern. What women who have given birth need to recover physically and psychologically, because their body shape is distorted and their skin becomes worse will inevitably feel inferior, and the husband's encouragement is very effective.

Reason 3: There is a gap with my mother-in-law
Although you can live in a confinement period in your mother's house more "will do whatever you want" , you can even open your mouth for your mother and get your clothes. And I feel comfortable, should I also consider what my in-laws’ family think? Because mother-in-law likes to compete, and when the daughter-in-law returns to her parents' home, although the mother-in-law is "easy", she still wonders if it is because her daughter-in-law hates her and the conflict between the mother-in-law leaves hidden dangers. Considering from many factors, if you really want to go back to your parents' home, at least after the baby has 1 month of , it is the most comprehensive.

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