At present, some psychology enthusiasts, including psychology workers, have overly one-sidedly emphasized the impact of children in the parents' environment and completely ignored the entire social environment, including social identity and the significant impact of children amon

Author: Zhao Xiaoming Editor: Yang Liyun


Xiaoming Quotes

Parents’ personality traits are innate. If parents influence their children, the result will only strengthen their genetic performance and make their children look more like themselves.


01 The negative impact of the "giant baby theory" view on the public

At present, some psychology enthusiasts, including psychology workers, emphasizes too much on the impact of on the parents' environment, completely ignoring the entire social environment of , including social identity and the significant impact of children among peers .

causes many people to show a single biased thought of when using psychology, including when doing psychological counseling cases, or when treating their children.

There is an expert on the Internet saying: If a child does not learn a sense of rules before he is 6 years old, he will not be able to establish it later. is not actually like this .

Everyone knows Military police enters military training after adulthood. In social psychology, it is called and the process of socialization . It can also establish a sense of rules .

The establishment of a sense of rule is not based on the relationship between one person and his parents, but on the relationship between the relationship between one person and the group and society . Under the group pressure and herd psychological effect of , personality will also change under the joint action of collective environment, collective honor, and social identity.

The current public understanding of psychology is also affected by these biased psychology . Some incorrect and incorrect terms are frequently used, such as the original family, the relationship between father and mother, everything is a relationship. These are some wrong and biased views .

In the popularization of psychology, if the public accepts the indoctrination of bad, biased and wrong psychological knowledge theories from the beginning, will only make their words, deeds and thinking extreme, making their behavior towards their parents and children more irrational .

02 Two basic fields of psychology research

The psychology of Western countries mostly tends to case studies , that is, individual psychology . The characteristic of individual psychology is that it pays special attention to the influence of parents in the growth process of a child.

Currently popular parenting studies in China More Quoting psychoanalysis research , overemphasizing the relationship between children and parents, while ignoring the influence of more other factors during the child's growth process.

The growth of a child is both in the parental environment and in the social environment. Both of them have great impacts and cannot be biased against any of them.

Children form personality in the process of interacting with their father and mother , and also contain interactive relationships with playmates.

After entering society, the scope of influence has expanded. In the Internet era, children are even more affected by group thinking.

Psychological research of socialist countries is based on the requirements of social form, focusing on discovering the impact of collectives on social organizations, groups, and individual psychology in social psychology. Its research direction and results are mutually beneficial to complement with Western individual psychology .

Social identity will have a significant impact on personality, which happens to be the result of the combination of Lacan psychoanalysis and Marxist theory . Lacan's psychoanalysis specifically emphasizes the important role of social identity in the treatment of a person's mental illness.

After the liberation, our country transformed many groups such as prostitutes who were oppressed in the old society in the past. The method was to give social identity to . They were arranged to work in the factory and obtained an equal social identity of , and also received "model worker" and other social honors .

03 Vygotsky's research

formulates a unified learning target for , and uses the recent development of to discover the potential of children and carry out targeted education. Vygotsky from the social level, using organization to achieve a significant impact on the child group.

Vigotsky has an important position in the development of children's psychology lies in introducing to the world another way with socialist tendency in addition to European and American psychology research methods.

Many people who share the same view as Vygotsky also believe that it is stupid to study the relationship between children and parents alone without considering the influence of the social environment. interacting environment will have different levels of impact on children.

Currently, many psychology trainings in society basically do not talk about companions, collectives, environment, society, and social identities to shape personality , so that the effect of will be missing half of . It is conceivable to apply a biased psychological theory to fact-based warfare.

~~This article is excerpted from "The Third Generation of Children's Psychological Education"


Xiao Ming Quotes

Psychology has a large core technology section, which is to learn to adjust the breadth of your attention at any time, which is also a necessary ability for us people who study psychology .


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