What is it like to have four sons? Although "more children and more blessings" is a traditional Chinese concept, with the development of the times, young people's concept of reproduction is also changing. One more child means more pressure to support the family. If there are two

What is it like to have four sons?

Although "many children and more blessings" is a traditional Chinese concept, with the development of the times, young people's concept of reproduction is also changing. One more child means more pressure to support the family. If there are two sons at home, parents will be sympathized with by others.

Not only that, in families with many children, many parents not only have to worry about their children's food, drink, defecation, and urination, but also care about whether the relationship between brothers and sisters can be intimate and harmonious. After all, in real life, there are many examples of brothers and sisters falling in love with each other when they were children and not interacting with each other when they grew up.

Recently, a four-child father in Fuyang, Anhui Province posted a video, and the scene in the video attracted many netizens to watch.

It is understood that this father has four sons in total. In order to ensure that the four children can always maintain a deep brotherhood, the father did one thing, that is, let the four children work together to write the next word: brotherhood.

In the yard, my father put a roll of long paper on the table, and the boss wrote the first big word with a brush: Love.

Then, the second brother took the pen of his brother and wrote: Same.

Since the third and fourth brothers can’t write, the two directly used handprints and footprints to replace them, and printed a “hand” and a “foot” behind the brothers’ characters.

Four-child father said that he hopes that in this way, the children can understand the friendship between brothers, and hope that they will grow up healthily and happily, and can also fall in love with each other when they grow up.

This video attracted many netizens to watch. Some people said that this practice is very memorable. In families with many children, what parents are most pleased with is that their brothers and sisters fall in love with each other.

But at the same time, many netizens pointed out that although this father did a good job, he used the wrong idiom. The original meaning of "like brothers and sisters" is that they have a deep relationship with each other, just like brothers, but these four children are brothers themselves, so how can they be said to be "like brothers and sisters"?

" Brothers and feet refer to brothers and feet, and sympathy means thanking as good as brothers. They are originally brothers, but it is not appropriate to use them again."

" It's so amazing. He actually gave birth to four sons. There are many boys and parents in families with great pressure. This word must be preserved well. I hope that the four brothers can understand their parents' painstaking efforts when they grow up and love each other forever."

" Parents' approach is very commemorative to children, but the idiom is a bit inappropriate, and they should be replaced by deep brothers and feet."

" It doesn’t matter whether there is culture or not. This father loves children should not be adulterated. Culture is a symbol, a form, and an expression. This father is just placing a high hope, so why bother pointing at the height of culture? "

Although the words may be inappropriate, it is not difficult to see that these four big words are a father’s deep emotional sustenance to the four brothers.

. In families with multiple children, what issues should parents pay attention to if their children want to fall in love with each other?

. Parents are not biased in dealing with things

In families with many children, if brothers and sisters want to love each other, the parents' attitude towards things is the key. If parents are obviously biased towards one or several of their siblings, this practice will cause dissatisfaction among other children, and over time, they will also blame the dissatisfaction on the favored child.

Parents’ partiality in dealing with things will not only accelerate the separation of feelings between brothers and sisters, but will also arouse children’s dissatisfaction and even resentment towards themselves. Therefore, for parents from multiple families, we need to treat every child as equal as possible.

2. Pay more attention to the needs of the boss

In families with many children, many parents will show different attitudes towards their children because of the large age difference between their children and different needs.

This is a very common and normal phenomenon. Children are of different ages and parents’ requirements and expectations for them are also different. However, in the process of getting along, we still need to pay attention to the ideas and needs of each child. Don’t think that the child is capable of taking on more responsibilities just because he is older.

Many times, the eldest in a family with more children needs the attention and care of parents.

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