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Neighbor Xiaobao just entered primary school this year, and the school started for only more than a month, followed by a long online class for the epidemic. Her mother was a little anxious in the group:
She thought that after the child entered school, her psychological adjustment was not good enough, and she seemed to have not fully adapted to elementary school. She usually doesn’t like to take the initiative to play with classmates like in kindergarten. During the online class, she found that Xiaobao seemed unwilling to listen to the teacher’s online class. She couldn’t sit still at all. Occasionally, she sat firmly and before she could be happy, she found that she was sleeping with her little arm on her back...
is so worried about the child!
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I remember a report I once read, Tianjin Women and Children Health Center once conducted a survey on children in kindergarten senior classes, and the results were shocking:
26% of preschool children have sensory disorders and psychological behavior problems. Among the children with problems, boys account for 61.6% and girls account for 38.4%.
Sensory systemic disorder and psychological behavior problems are mainly manifested in: inattention, activeness, insufficient adaptability, strong dependence, poor motor coordination ability, etc.
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In fact, I think that as parents, we should calm our mindset and have a scientific understanding. We should neither give up at will nor overcorrect it.
First of all, encourage children to exercise more and improve their coordination abilities
What is sensory disorder? That is, when the brain has problems with the synthesis of sensory information, it will cause sensory disorders. Because our brain needs to input and combine the sensory information of each part and coordinate it in order to complete some advanced and complex cognitive activities, such as attention, subjective ability, self-control, generalization and understanding ability.
crawling at a young age, proper exercise after growth, sufficient exercise of hands and brain, and training of fine movements can effectively prevent the occurrence of sensory disorders.
For example, in the kindergarten class, many children have already started to try " skipping rope ", which is an activity that is very beneficial to physical and mental development, and requires comprehensive cooperation of hands, brain, legs, etc. Some children can jump hundreds of times in a row after training, which is great.
If the child has developed sensory disorders, do not hide the disease and avoid medical treatment. Go to a professional institution for adjustment, correction and training in time. The earlier the child recovers, the better.
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Secondly, it is a pity that children's concentration is often accidentally destroyed by parents. Because children's concentration often arises when they are most interested, whether it is playing games or learning knowledge. However, when you are at home, parents often interrupt or disturb the child.
In terms of school knowledge, many children have already received "advanced learning". The teacher can tell you the knowledge, and it is inevitable that they don't want to listen to the class.
Therefore, for children who are about to enter primary school, there is no need to teach the knowledge of the textbook in advance. You might as well use reading as your child’s enlightenment, encourage children to read more, read good books, and persist in step by step, so as to achieve the purpose of training children’s concentration and improving learning efficiency.
In addition, it is best for parents not to do it to accompany their children to do their homework, especially to participate in the process of their children's homework, which is very unfavorable to the cultivation of children's self-control.
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Third, cultivate children's communication skills and enhance their team integration
Many children are typical "horizons". They are like little bullies at home, but when they arrive at school, they keep silent to the end, dare not say, dare not do, are not adapted, shy, anxious, and uneasy.
Therefore, parents should consciously cultivate their children's qualities of confidence, independence, cooperation and perseverance before their children go to school, and these qualities are mostly derived from effective communication.
Parents communicate with their children and encourage them to find ways to solve their basic problems, such as the ability to organize and store, the ability to do housework appropriately, etc.; encourage them to actively communicate with teachers, such as learning problems, class problems, etc.; encourage them to integrate with their classmates, build a class group, share class honors, etc....
Children's ability through communication is improved, they can do things independently, gain a sense of accomplishment, build self-confidence, not afraid of failure, and be willing to help others. Such children are loved by everyone, so how can there be any problems in their studies?
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