Let’s talk about my situation first! I am thirty and the child is three years old. I was helped by both parents to take care of him. I can keep working. Both of our brothers and sisters are both second children. At present, we only have one child in our family. I don’t have time to think about the issue of having a second child just after giving birth. Now I have to think about it. First, age does not wait for others, and to have to hurry up to the time to give birth. Second, I have the experience of the boss, and the pros and cons are clearer, and my thinking about the second child is deeper. Let me share some of my ideas below and hope to communicate with you.
Whether to live or not is just a result. We do not need to rush to make a sense of consciousness, but through the process of thinking, we can understand the inner essence of this problem and sort out what kind of life we want. In this way, the answer to the question will be natural.
I asked myself these questions while thinking, and by answering these questions, I got my own answer. First, why should you have a child? Are the following reasons we often hear:
1. I am afraid that the boss will be lonely and want to have a companion in the future, so I will take care of each other.
2. The elderly or one couple at home strongly demands, 3. A boy and a girl are a child, and both children are good.
4. Sharing the pension cost of children is to raise children to prevent their old age.
5. The policy has been relaxed and the economic conditions are OK.
0 What is your reason? I think the most important thing is that children will have a companion in the future. I believe that many post-80s and 90s who are like me grow up with their brothers and sisters, and have a strong desire to have more children. Secondly, it is not difficult to imagine that the society we face in the future will definitely be a society with marriage rate and low fertility rate. There will definitely be some people who will face the situation of loneliness after their parents leave. If a person with blood relationship can accompany him, he will have more motivation to face the next life.
As for the elderly or family members, you don’t have to be affected too much. The only thing that decides whether to have children or not is the parents; as for whether to have children, put aside the probability, gender is not an indicator that determines happiness, and cultivating excellence is; don’t expect to raise children to prevent old age. First, see if you can support your elderly, and you will understand everything;
The second is the issue of raising children. If you want a second child, do you meet the following conditions? Condition 1: Whether the husband and wife have reached a consensus and are healthy and energetic can handle the lives of the two children well. Condition 2: The problem of raising children. Is there any elderly person who can help with raising children? The financial pressure of a second child in ordinary families is already very high, and relying solely on one party to support the family will definitely have hidden dangers, so parents can solve the big problem if they can help. Condition 3 is the economic foundation. If the personnel problem is solved, the rest is the economic foundation. Now there is no need to explain the cost of raising children too much. Moreover, children nowadays cannot solve the problem of food and clothing, and the investment in training cannot be saved. After chatting about the above questions of
, I believe everyone has answers. Regarding myself, I want a second child, but it has been completed in the past three years. What is your answer? You can also express your opinions in the comment section!
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