Grandma "don't worry" about taking care of her baby, throwing her baby in the room every day to play. Accidentally cultivates a focused genius. I have a colleague Xiao Wu. Her child's grades were pretty good when he was in the first and second grades, but when he was in the third

Grandma "don't worry" with her baby, throwing her baby in the room every day

Accidentally cultivates a small genius to focus

What if I judge whether a child is excellent or not? There has always been an obvious criterion for judging this point: that is, to see whether the child’s academic performance is excellent. In fact, it is not an easy thing to have a child’s academic performance. Parents must pay attention to educational methods.

I have a colleague Xiao Wu. Her child’s grades were pretty good when he was in the first and second grades, but when he was in the third grade, his grades suddenly dropped sharply, and he couldn’t make up for it. Later, his colleague went to ask an education expert, and the expert then analyzed to the point that the reason why the child is like this is because his colleagues attach too much importance to the child’s scores and neglected to cultivate the child’s learning habits in the process of educating his children.

Xiao Wu really regretted this. I remember that when her child had just entered kindergarten, Xiao Wu enrolled the child in various studies, mathematics, Chinese, and even English, and the child did not disappoint Xiao Wu's good intentions. After the first grade, other children had not understood what the teacher was talking about, and her child was basically reviewing and consolidating. So this also leads to children who always feel that learning is not difficult at all. As a result, in the second half of the semester of the first grade, the proud child becomes less and less careful in listening to the class. Anyway, the teacher has learned what he has taught, so the children are increasingly despising their studies. In the end, Xiao Wu's child's grades naturally begin to regress.

At first, Xiao Wu didn't care about it, but when he reached the third grade, not only did he increase new knowledge, but his knowledge difficulty also increased. Therefore, Xiao Wu's children felt that learning was difficult, and the gap was getting bigger and bigger with others. In addition, Xiao Wu's personality was strong, and seeing that his children's learning was regressing and criticized and scolded the children in various ways. So in the end, Xiao Wu's children became more and more disgusted with learning the more they learned, and their grades were regressing.

Unlike Xiao Wu's children, my child's learning is getting smarter the more he learns. The reason for this is very simple. My mother-in-law trained and cultivated her children's learning habits when she was very young, and used the right educational method.

It turns out that my mother-in-law was a primary school teacher before she retired, so she had a lot of teaching experience. After raising the children, although I also suggested that my mother-in-law teach her children to learn knowledge, and even became dissatisfied with her mother-in-law's way of raising children because she envied Xiao Wu's "excellent" children, but her mother-in-law was not affected at all. On the contrary, from beginning to end, I firmly teach my children in my own way, and the method is really super simple. That is to let the children play sticker game by themselves!

What made me most upset at that time was that my mother-in-law not only often asked her children to play with stickers, but once she threw them in the room to play with stickers, she never worried. She either read books by herself or was busy with other things, and never went to see if the children were messing around or were hungry or thirsty.

However, what I didn’t expect was that my mother-in-law’s “unreliable” way of raising children really benefited a lot after going to school. Not long after I started school, the teacher praised my child for being focused, fast reactions and quick thinking. He was a “little genius” with high IQ. He even organized a parent meeting to let me share with you my parenting method. Naturally, I had to admit frankly that this is actually the credit of the child’s grandmother.So why does the mother-in-law just let the child play around every day and the effect is so good?

Faced with my doubts, my mother-in-law explained earnestly that for the children in kindergarten, it is not suitable for them to instill knowledge learning. Moreover, although "advanced learning" will make the children perform well in the short term, it is very unfavorable for the children's subsequent development. On the contrary, if parents can help their children develop good learning habits and develop their learning interests and thinking skills during kindergarten, then for the children, they will not only have a happy childhood life, but will also benefit a lot after going to school, and they will become smarter the more they learn.

This is also the fundamental reason why my mother-in-law opposed my proposal to learn knowledge in advance for her children. However, not being able to provide "advanced education" does not mean that children can play unrestrainedly, but that they must scientifically grasp the critical period of their children's growth, guide and enlighten children correctly, and educate and entertain children with fun.

So when taking care of the child, the mother-in-law chose this set of "Left and Left Brain Development Stickers" tailored for babies aged 2-8. This set of stickers is a good combination of developing children's intelligence, promoting the development of children's potential and habit cultivation with playing games. Children can learn while playing, and unknowingly improve their concentration, observation, memory, analysis ability, etc. Let children develop good learning habits from an early age and lay a solid foundation for learning knowledge in the future.

And the content of this set of "Left and Right Brain Development Stickers" is really in line with the nature and cognitive characteristics of children. All stickers are very bright and cute, which can easily attract children's attention and stimulate children's interest in learning. Moreover, all stickers themes are closely related to the actual life of children. They are really helpful in expanding children's knowledge, improving children's cognitive abilities, and facilitating children's understanding and mastering. They can easily make children more knowledgeable in the process of stickers!

In addition, during the process of playing with stickers, children's hand strength, finger flexibility, hand, eye and brain coordination ability will also be exercised and improved. This is also very beneficial to children's intellectual development, but it can also lay a solid foundation for children to learn to write in the future. It is really a killing of multiple goals.

With my recommendation, Xiao Wu also prepared a set for her child. As a result, the child made great progress after playing for less than a month. Not only did he listen to classes more seriously and focus more on the class, but his efficiency in learning new knowledge has also increased a lot, and his understanding and memory have become super strong. Even the teacher was surprised.

I have to say that ginger is still so spicy. Compared with us "impatient" young people, mothers-in-law who have experienced many battles and devoted themselves to the front line of education for the rest of their lives are obviously more "sustaining" about parenting, so the children's growth is better. So if your child has similar problems or is at the right age, then parents should not miss it. Take action and prepare a set of "Left and Left Brain Development Stickers" for their children. I believe that after the child uses it, they will definitely make obvious progress. Parents who need it can click the link to buy it. See you next time.