" I fell in love with her, let's get divorced!".
Unconsciously, Xi Meijuan has been a single mother for 28 years, but I can never forget the Zhou Yemang when I "abandon my wife and children" during my confinement period.
Xi Meijuan and her ex-husband walked from campus to marriage. She was willing to give up her career for love, but was ruthlessly betrayed by him.
What exactly did their marriage go through?
What about the lives of Xi Meijuan and her son now?
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html In the mid-1950s, many people were worried about how to survive, and Xi Meijuan's life was definitely moist. Her mother was a front-line worker and her father was a toy factory designer, and her income was quite stable.
After graduating from high school, 18-year-old Xi Meijuan went to the rural area of Chongming Island near Shanghai to become an educated youth.
The news of various schools resuming enrollment is exciting. Shanghai Theatre Academy even doubled its quota than before, and Xi Meijuan's age is better within the range.
She will never make a name for herself without working hard in a small place for the rest of her life, so Xi Meijuan chose to fight for herself once.
When it comes to the re-examination stage, all she can see is the back of the candidates' heads. Not only that, she is also ridiculed by others and is not good-looking at all.
"You are too thin too", even the examiner couldn't help but complain about her.
Xi Meijuan's little face instantly turned red like a ripe apple, and she lowered her head and said nothing.
Although it is always said during the interview, the results are good.
1 In September 973, Xi Meijuan became a freshman in the Shanghai Theater Performance Department.
She cherishes the hard-won learning opportunities and has excellent grades during her school days.
People's aesthetics at that time preferred women's round faces and round figures. Although Xi Meijuan's performance was very professional, she did not get any opportunities.
977, Xi Meijuan went to Shanghai Art Theater to report and became a stage play actor.
In the troupe, she also truly realized the saying "there are people outside of people". In order to catch up with the footsteps of her predecessors, she demanded herself with higher standards.
After several years of training, she has become an indispensable new-age actress in the troupe. She always has the ability to quickly immerse the audience in the plot.
Gradually, Xi Meijuan also gained her fame.
It is said that the concept of 3D images has begun to appear abroad.
Xi Meijuan began to become interested in film and television. Just as she was looking for an opportunity to go out to film, a friend introduced her to a director.
There happened to be a role suitable for Xi Meijuan in the play. When she was happy to audition on the set, the director thought she was not good-looking and had no wealth at all eliminated her.
Because of her appearance, she once hated her face for a while and looked in the mirror every night.
Out of the girl's self-esteem, Xi Meijuan did not consider starring in film and television dramas before she was 35 years old.
Until 1990, she was strongly invited by her friends to star in her first film and television work " Fake Jurchen ".
This is her first time film and television dramas, but she has not been able to play with the experience of stage dramas. With this drama, she won the award for Best Actress.
is just like that, and it’s a success!
Then, Xi Meijuan made continuous film appointments and had almost no time to rest.
People are popular and there are many troubles. reports about Xi Meijuan are emerging one after another, and one of them is a hot topic of news about her early marriage.
Soon after, she admitted that she was married, but she did not deliberately conceal it, but at this time the marriage between her and her husband Zhou Yemang was separated.
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Xi Meijuan became a "legendary" in school. She was selected by the best theater in the local area. She was the only one back then. Many junior brothers and sisters admired her very much.
Many people want to be admitted to the theater like her, among which Zhou Yemang has the greatest desire.
Zhou Yemang was originally a worker in a car factory, but he had a heart to become a big star.
977, he was admitted to Shanghai Theatre by self-study, and Xi Meijuan graduated this year.
Relying on his super high understanding and hard-working learning spirit, Zhou Yemang became colleagues with Xi Meijuan four years later.
Xi Meijuan is very low-key and has a very easy-going personality. She often plays and jokes with her colleagues, but only when she is not rehearsing.
She is very strict about the quality of the play. She has to have a basis for the relationship between each line and what she wants to express. If the opponent's emotions are not in a state, in addition to patient guidance, it is required that the other party practice hundreds of times to form muscle memory .
On this day, Xi Meijuan arrived at the rehearsal hall in advance as she was used to, but she didn't expect that there was a person who was earlier than him.
During the conversation, she learned that the other party was her junior who had just arrived at the troupe and was arranged to be a passerby in the play. During the rehearsal of
, she observed her junior attentively observing the starring actor's every move, which was in sharp contrast with the person who didn't care at all.
This point makes Xi Meijuan pay attention to her junior from time to time in the future.
As expected, this person is Zhou Yemang.
sometimes after the performance, Xi Meijuan would see Zhou Yemang who was waiting to ask her humbly for advice in the background.
If she is an ordinary actor, she will tell the other party without reservation, not to mention that this person is still her junior.
As the two of them communicate more and more, they discovered many common topics, and even had an agreement to watch a movie every month.
At this time, Xi Meijuan just regarded the other party as her junior.
Until one day, Zhou Yemang took advantage of the scene of the hero and heroine confessing her love to Xi Meijuan.
"Sorry"
Xi Meijuan's answer made Zhou Yemang confused. He thought the other party would definitely agree to him.
Later, he learned through Xi Meijuan's best friend that she refused a sibling relationship in her heart.
In Zhou Yemang's eyes, Xi Meijuan is a very cultivated and opinionated person. It is natural for her to find someone who is more mature than herself.
But he does not intend to give up, and the age of birth does not represent psychological age.
Slowly, Xi Meijuan also discovered Zhou Yemang's changes.
He will accompany her to be an exclusive mentor when she is unable to come out of the show; he will take her to eat delicious food when she is in trouble because of her colleague.
A few months later, Xi Meijuan was moved by Zhou Yemang's behavior and agreed to date.
"Am I embarrassed?"
The two of them go shopping together. If they meet an acquaintance or someone else wants to give them a look, she will immediately let go of her boyfriend's hand, and she feels like she doesn't want people to know about their relationship.
Xi Meijuan had no idea and hurriedly explained, "No, I can't adapt."
When she was nervously waiting for her boyfriend to forgive, the other party smiled and said, " is so cute."
It turns out that he just wanted to take a look at what his girlfriend looked like when she was anxious!
The two are like couples who are in love, chasing each other and playing with the eagle catching the chick.
In fact, Xi Meijuan just suddenly transformed into her boyfriend from the perspective of her younger brother, and she was a little uncomfortable.
However, Zhou Yemang was also very patient. He did not like men, and he wanted to hold hands and kiss them quickly without any affection.
Later, with Xi Meijuan's help, Zhou Yemang's career gradually rose, and the two became a natural couple in Wushu's hearts.
When the two of them rehearsed together, they only had one look and were easy to understand. Even Xi Meijuan herself did not expect that she would have such a tacit understanding.
985, Xi Meijuan decided to marry Zhou Yemang.
After marriage, she found that her husband worked harder than before.
In order to expand the field, Zhou Yemang began to learn English day and night.
Half a year later, he was a novice who didn't understand English at all and went to communicate with foreigners without barriers.
Therefore, he got a lot of opportunities to dub foreign films, and both American and British pronunciations can be accurately translated.
Xi Meijuan is very proud of her husband, and she unconditionally supports any things that are beneficial to the other party.
In 1986, the troupe won a quota to study abroad at its own expense. Among dozens of people, Zhou Yemang stood out with his excellent English and became a lucky person.
There is no doubt that Xi Meijuan supports her husband to go abroad.
Zhou Yemang's three years of studying abroad, she has become a popular actress and the new goddess in the hearts of boys from Tianya Haibei.
The career here is booming. That year, Zhou Yemang, who was alone, could only rely on washing dishes and serving beer to earn living expenses.
In the letter, he never told his true situation for the sake of face, but he was sincerely happy for his wife.
That day, Xi Meijuan found that the lights at home were on and thought that her parents brought her the soup to her again.
She opened the lock leisurely, and the scene in front of her scared her.
"Why are you back?" she asked her husband.
"Don't you miss me, just hold one first!"
There is still one year before Zhou Yemang graduated. There must be a reason to come back at this time, but no matter how Xi Meijuan asked, she would not get the answer.
Anyone with discerning eyes understands that Zhou Yemang can't make it anymore.
group had the only quota for him. Some people were dissatisfied with it, but now they skipped school, and many people looked down on Zhou Yemang.
Xi Meijuan is a person who values friendship and looks pure in love. She never cares about fame and wealth.
When her husband hears " soft rice man ", she will comfort her from the side, " marrying you is the most correct thing I have ever done."
Maybe this statement seems pale, but Xi Meijuan proved everything with her actions. She handed over all the connections she had accumulated in a few years to her husband and announced her temporary return to the drama stage.
After obtaining wife resources , Zhou Yemang has also participated in several big hit dramas, but he did not impress the audience every time.
But this did not affect the relationship between the two. Soon after, Xi Meijuan became pregnant.
The two of them would lie in bed at night and fantasize about their children’s appearance. Who do they look a little more like?
Surprises always come off guard.
Xi Meijuan did not step on her steadily during the curtain call. She felt a headache in her stomach and blood was everywhere between her legs.
She was awakened by the smell of disinfectant and cried loudly after learning of the miscarriage.
Zhou Yemang kept her tightly and gave her enough sense of security.
For a long time, Xi Meijuan couldn't recover from sadness, and she didn't know how long she cried.
Sadness and self-blame also made her ignore her husband's feelings.
The relationship between the couple is fading from this moment on.
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Time never stops, Xi Meijuan really wants to give birth to a baby for Zhou Yemang, but there is no sign of pregnancy. After all, miscarriage has caused great damage to the body.
She would go to the hospital from time to time to insist, but the doctor had never seen her husband.
During this period, Zhou Yemangzhe was filming Lin Chong's scenes on the crew of " Water Margin ".
In his words, it is: "I won't go after just one check, I'm busy."
Xi Meijuan didn't even feel like going to work at this time. Although she was not a self-deprecating person, she would be lazy after encountering major events.
Suddenly, she was taking a nap and received a call from the hospital, and the report line showed that she was pregnant.
One mistake makes one's wisdom. Xi Meijuan simply retired this time and took care of the child in her belly wholeheartedly.
She did not tell her husband immediately, but planned to wait for him to come back from filming and tell him in person.
"I'm pregnant"
When Xi Meijuan was happy to look forward to her husband being able to give a big response, the other party just said three words: "I understand, sorry, let's divorce!"
Xi Meijuan stopped talking. Facing her indifferent husband, she returned to the room alone to lock the door, recalling everything she experienced together.
Since marriage, both of them have achieved good results in their careers. However, in comparison, Zhou Yemang has been moving forward again, and she has paid more for her family. After getting pregnant, she gave up filming, lost many opportunities, and has been standing still.
The feelings accumulated during love have also reached a dull period in the social life of food, rice, oil and salt. This marriage has made her feel awkward and forced.
However, for Zhou Yemang, he got a lot.
Xi Meijuan is a decisive and decisive person. She agreed to Zhou Yemang's divorce.
During the negotiation of divorce, 40-year-old Xi Meijuan risked her life to give birth to her son.
Zhou Yemang specially went to the ward to make her sign on divorce agreement for some reason.
When Xi Meijuan asked him to see his son, he just glanced at him sideways and hurried out.
When the last sentence left by her ex-husband, "Take good care of yourself"!
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"Put the child to me, then go to film with peace of mind! "
After the divorce, Xi Meijuan chose to make a comeback for the sake of her livelihood. Her parents couldn't bear to see her daughter being too tired and took the initiative to help her take care of her child.
The audience was looking forward to her comeback.
Facts have proved that people who are truly capable cannot change their time, and the film and television works she shoots are all classic.
She will choose the crew filmed near Shanghai as much as possible, so that she has plenty of time to go home and take a look at her son at night.
In order to create high-quality living conditions for his son Xi Nan, Xi Meijuan worked hard in her career and starred in many film and television works one after another.
" Red Prescription ", " Remarried Family ", " Red Carnation ", " Spring Grass ", " Wang Gui and Anna ", " Hawthorn Tree Love ",
Xi Meijuan has never lacked people to pursue, and coupled with the blessing of life experience, it looks even more attractive, but none of her looks at it.
For this reason, many people say that she is very harsh and has a high vision.
But only she knows what she is sticking to.
In 2006, when his son was 12 years old, Xi Meijuan told him truthfully about herself and her ex-husband Zhou Yemang.
After listening, the son held her hand seriously and said, "Mom, I know everything! Please don't let yourself be wronged because of me."
The son's words made her completely unable to bind her. She cried and said "Mom won't feel wronged, I will love you forever." , and the mother and son hugged their heads and cried bitterly.
This conversation made Xi Meijuan understand that her son grew up and was about to become her own support.
The son Xi Nan has demonstrated extremely high painting skills since he was a child, and his favorite form is landscape sketching.
In 2016, he chose to study abroad for .
While at school, he would go to a nearby fast food restaurant to work and study.
In China, Xi Meijuan often receives gifts from her son, sometimes perfume, and sometimes scarf.
04 years later, after returning to China, Xi Nan found a stable job in Shanghai. As long as he rested, he would experience the great mountains and rivers of the motherland with his mother. Nowadays, Xi Meijuan is still single at the age of 67, living freely and freely. Her only wish is that her son quickly finds a good daughter-in-law for herself.
After the divorce, Zhou Yemang lived a completely opposite life to Xi Meijuan.
Not long after the divorce, he married actress Wang Zhixia , who is 7 years younger than him.
The two met while filming. After a period of time, they got along well and had many topics, so they decided to stay together for a lifetime.
Wang Zhixia is also a woman who has been hurt by feelings. They did not have children after getting married.
Summary
Now I finally understand that society is a classroom. What we see and experience in the classroom is a big book with extraordinary significance and profoundness. Only when we open this book and read it carefully can the meaning be truly revealed.
This is what Xi Meijuan mentioned in the article. Seeing that she has already been indifferent to many things, she is not to hate her, but to accept it happily.
Only in this way can you live your true self and realize your life value.
