In today's society, there are more and more cases of pregnancy before marriage. After all, the society is more open now, and there are more premarital sex, so the probability of pregnancy before marriage will naturally be greater. Although there are various contraceptive measures, there are always times when the gun goes off.
is just in the case of choice, sure! must! Be sure to avoid getting pregnant before marriage.
After pregnancy before marriage, there are only two choices: one is to choose abortion and the other is to choose to give birth.
If you choose to have an abortion, it goes without saying how much harm it will cause to a girl's body, and it is not only physical damage, but also lifelong infertility. Secondly, psychological harm may also accompany lifelong, after all, this is the disappearance of a life.
If born, it means two possibilities: one is to be a single mother and the other is to get married with a child.
It is unimaginable how hard it will be for a single mother to raise a child alone. After all, normal couples will be in a hurry when raising a child. If they rely solely on one person to raise it, it will be in dire straits. Unless there is a mine at home, it may be better.
If you get married with a child, it seems to be pretty good on the surface, but in fact it is also full of risks. There are many risks, such as:
1, men may prefer boys over girls.
Some men will deliberately let women get pregnant before marriage, and the purpose is to allow women to give birth to their own son. If a woman gives birth to a son in the end, a man will be willing to marry a woman. If a woman gives birth to a daughter, a man may choose to abandon her.
If you meet such a man, in fact, no matter whether you give birth to a man or a woman, you probably won’t be happy. In other words, men who are willing to let their women get pregnant before marriage are likely to have some problems in their personality qualities, which is very unfavorable from the perspective of marriage.
2, may get married because of responsibility, or may get divorced because of lack of love.
The arrival of the child is a responsibility for both husband and wife, so they may form a family because of the responsibility of raising children.
A sense of responsibility is very important for maintaining a marriage. But if there is only a sense of responsibility, it is usually impossible to make a marriage last.
Two people will get pregnant before marriage instead of getting married and having children normally. It may be because they don’t know each other enough and their relationship is not deep enough, so this is an accident.
If the relationship between each other is not very stable, the arrival of the child may make the relationship between the two people worse. After all, even if two people go through the normal process of getting married, preparing for pregnancy, getting pregnant, and having children, they may be in a hurry when raising a child, let alone getting pregnant before marriage is often just an accident.
Without being prepared, the arrival of the child may quickly consume each other's emotional foundation, which makes the two feel that getting married is a wrong decision, and the marriage of the two may fall apart in the end.
If a marriage lasts for a long time, it usually requires that the couple have sufficient emotional foundation and both have sufficient sense of responsibility to give up when facing the various difficulties of marriage.
3, increasing the interference of people around you in relationships with each other.
The matter of pregnancy before marriage is easy to make many people look down on the woman, because this girl can give birth to a child without marriage, so is this girl very cheap and casual?
Especially if the man’s parents do not have a high enough cognition and vision, they may look down on the woman, which will eventually make the woman feel uncomfortable in the new family, and in the end such a marriage will be difficult to maintain.
In short, if you still have a choice, you naturally need to avoid getting pregnant before marriage. Any man who says he is pregnant first and then gets married is taking advantage of you. After all, getting pregnant does not hurt their bodies. When you want to turn against each other, you can't stop him.
If you really want to be with you for a long time, why not get married first? If it is just a way to make a fussy woman give birth to a baby for herself, it would be too insincere.
Happy~
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