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Some elderly people believed that raising children can prevent old age when they were young, so no matter whether they have money or not, they would have as many children as possible. In their opinion, more children can bring more blessings. Especially in rural areas, if there are many brothers and sisters, they will even be more confident in speaking and are not afraid of being bullied.
But some elderly people don’t care about the number of their children, they only care whether they can educate their children well.
Although they only have one only child, they still feel that they are no worse than others. They can put all their thoughts and energy into this child, just to achieve great success and live a smooth and peaceful life.
Nowadays, decades have passed, what is the difference between a multi-child family and an only child family?
An old man in our village told the truth, which is worth our thinking.
1: The education is not good, the more children there are, the more conflicts it is, the less guaranteed it will be in old age
The old man is already in his eighties. He has a total of seven children, and now all are in middle age. Among them, some of them are doing well, while others are doing very ordinary, so they rarely interact with each other.
is not considered to be a dedication to my old father.
except for coming back during festivals, they rarely care about themselves. Those who are interested can only get some money back. Those who are not interested can just pretend that this father does not exist.
But one year, they heard that their hometown was going to build a high-speed rail station and the old house might be demolished. They suddenly became enthusiastic about him and brought a lot of nutritional supplements when they came back to visit him. This move made the old man even more sad.
It turns out that they are so realistic, without any restraint in the face of interests.
The old man often sighs:
"What is the use of having children? When I was young, I thought that more children would bring more blessings. Now that I am old, I realize that education is not good, there are many contradictions, and brothers and sisters don't know their relatives at all, nor do they know what filial piety is. This is actually a kind of misfortune."
Thinking about it carefully, whether a family is harmonious is inseparable from family education and the family atmosphere. If the education is not good, no matter how many children there are, they may not be guaranteed in their later years.
2: Education is good, even if you have only one only child, your life will be very comfortable
There is also an old man in our village, which is completely opposite to his situation.
He has only one son. Since he was in his sixties, he was taken to the city to live. He usually helps take his grandson with him or travels. His life is very comfortable, and he naturally becomes the object of envy of everyone.
His family is very harmonious, and his son and daughter-in-law have a smooth career. The family lives together in harmony, can understand each other, support and support each other, and rarely have conflicts.
So you have to ask, what is the essential difference between a family with multiple children and a family with only children?
is nothing more than the difference between family style. If the family style is good, the more children the better you live. After all, everyone is very busy; if the family style is not good, no matter how many children there are, life will be in chaos.
3: Good family style, correct education is the key to whether a family is harmonious
The elderly with only one child or the elderly with many children, who is more secure when they are old? In fact, there is no comparison between the two.
Some people have many children, but they are not treated well when they get old. These children even fight for property and become enemies; while some people have only one only child, but are well taken care of. Raising children when you are young is not that stressful, and living a comfortable life when you are old is actually enviable.
Of course, everything is not absolute.
Some families have brothers and sisters who are very united and filial to their parents. When their parents get old, they can discuss and solve anything they encounter, which is far more advantageous than an only child family.
So the key to the problem is not how many children you have, but how you educate. If you have good education, you will naturally enjoy your life when you are old; if you have poor education, you will have a hard time no matter how many children you have.
After all, a good family style and correct education are the key to whether a family is harmonious.
Only when you know how to educate your children and establish a sound personality and correct view of the three views can you be treated well in your later years, so that you can live a better and more blessed life.
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