12-18 years old is the most difficult time for a child to grow up.
At this time, they no longer completely obey their parents, and become rebellious, talk back, and have a bad temper, for no reason. But this is the best time to shape a child's personality, ability, emotional intelligence, IQ, outlook on life and values .
Looking back on the past 18 years, I want to tell all parents at this stage that they really should not be too anxious, let alone too anxious. The "hardships" in recent years are that parents must practice well, they cannot escape, avoid, and jump.
What parents can do is to calm down and accompany them with their hearts, think from the perspective of their children, give them love, tolerant, help, guide, and grow with them.
Recalling when my child was in elementary and junior high school, I was also particularly anxious and anxious, and felt that there was a little missing everywhere.
tried all his energy and tried his best. The child's grades were still mediocre, the parent-child relationship was not good, and he was particularly rebellious and confrontational.
Instead, when I arrived in high school, everything changed.
▶ converts "expected results" into "serious company".
Calm your mind and slow your energy, don’t be anxious. Spend time to understand the thoughts of teenagers today, think about the implicit meaning reflected by their children's daily language and behaviors, and understand them carefully about her interests, hobbies, and friendships, what she likes, dislikes, expects, and yearns.
▶ In addition to working hard for children, parents also need to urge and guide them at all times.
The child is under pressure and finds a way to help her relieve her. He wants to give up and find motivation to move forward. When he is sad, he gives her a affectionate hug and gives her great praise for her when he gets the results.
Don’t be stingy with praise. If the child is happy, he will be happy with her. In fact, the child is very simple. Sometimes he simply wants to make his parents happy.
If you can’t be happy, how can you do your best to study?
▶ stands in the future of children to see the present!
What kind of person do you want your child to become, tell him firmly and help him become the person you imagine.
If you want him to be brave, encourage him to break through, challenge, and strive for it.
If you want him to be responsible, you must teach him to be responsible for his words and deeds.
If you want him to become a person with strong frustration resistance, tell him to do his best in advance and then let it go. If he works hard, he will not regret it. If he fails, he must be open and honest.
If you want him to become a cheerful and positive person, then give him love, tolerance, encouragement and praise, so that he can be brave enough to be himself and pursue the beauty he wants.
You want him...
▶ Parents are the leaders of their children's growth and are also the partners of their peers!
Success Some people cheered, failed Some people cheered, Some people supported them when they fell, Some people encouraged them when they were frustrated, Some people understood when they were sad, Some people decomposed when they were confused, Some people deducted when they were slack, Some people reminded...
is a relative, a friend, an audience, and a lifelong partner!
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