Our next generation, many children can no longer feel the state of our life in the 1980s and 1990s. Today's children either study, either play with their mobile phones, computers, watch TV, or play games with other children, or ask their parents to take them to watch movies and eat KFC . It is no exaggeration to say that many children have become little emperors at home.
Why are the people who work hard to be born in the 1970s, 1980s, and many children born in the 2000s start to lie flat? The reason is very simple. When a person comes to the world, everything is fixed, which means that you deserve to suffer. You did not experience it when you were young, and then your parents will help you finish all the suffering.
The karma that you should eliminate by yourself, but your parents are desperately helping you eliminate it. The result is excessive help, which will aggravate your sins. So when I grew up, when facing the beatings of society, I realized that many things my parents cannot bear. But before, parents never let them face it independently, and at this time they instinctively choose to avoid harm, compromise, and lie down.
Many children think that their lives are in a Buddhist state and think that this state is very high. In fact, only the heart knows that it is an escape and does not take the initiative to face the problem. I have never taken the initiative to challenge life. Especially today, housing prices are high, young people think they have no chance and can no longer afford to buy a house, so they start to choose not to work hard. Many boys feel that the conditions for getting married are too high now, and no matter how hard they try, they will not be able to find a partner. It is better to just forget it.
So today I am going to talk about a very important topic. There are many children now who look very motivated and excellent. In fact, this is a new way to hijack with hijack 2, and many parents are proud of their children's current state.
The first type of leniency is to hide at home and not work. The excuse gives you is also very simple, that is, you have to study and take the exam.
This year there are 10.76 million college graduates, and many of them find it difficult to find a job that they are satisfied with. Then they think of studying at home, through postgraduate entrance examinations, civil servant exams, teaching exams, etc., to make themselves better and have more bargaining chips. Many parents think that their children have a bright future, have great ideals and ambitions, and are willing to support their children's ideas.
But many children have developed a place to stay at home, study for one or two hours a day, and play games, watch TV, and watch short videos for the rest of the time. I spent several years at home in a daze, but I failed the exam in the end. This behavior and its essence are to evade one's own responsibilities and not want to be beaten by society. A truly excellent child must work and study, because he works up to 10 hours a day, and then there are 6 hours to study, eat and relax, and rest the rest of the time.
The second way to lew parents is to start a business with your parents’ money.
looks better than the first type because it takes the initiative to welcome life. However, the consequences he caused will make the financial situation of the entire family worse, and will even damage the blessings of relatives. Because of his own behavior, the entire family went bankrupt and even became in debt.
However, many parents think that their children are promising and are willing to support their children and take out all the money they have prepared for their children to buy a house, get married, and even the capital for their retirement to start their own business. As a result, the child didn't play for a year and was even heavily in debt. To be honest, it would be better to let the child sleep and play games at home honestly. At least he can't spend so much money a year. Some people say that if you don’t let him fail or experience it, he will never be able to grow. What I want to tell you is that starting a business depends on your ability, and what is the ability to start a business with your parents’ money?
The last way to lew parents into their own family nanny. The way of hiding parents is slightly better than the previous two. Because at this time, parents are your backing, standing behind you and not sheltering you from the wind and rain, it means you have made progress. However, in the entire society, young people are under great pressure in life, especially young people with mortgages and car loans. Both couples have to go to work to meet the daily expenses of the family. At this time, parents can only help their children’s education problems.
So after a long time, parents become their children's family nanny, helping their children wash clothes and cook and hygiene. At this time, many parents were very at ease to hand over their time and their elderly care capital to their children, and even handed over their future to their children. This is when you are flexible in your hands and feet. What should you do if you can't move?
What's more, it's not reliable to rely on young people to rely on them, and they may send you to a nursing home at that time. If you have a pension fee on your own, you will have more choices in your later years.
Finally, I left a small question. What behaviors do you think are dependent on your parents? Let’s discuss it together in the comment section.
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