Teacher Qin Dongkui must have children after getting married, which is the inheritance of a family. And you must give birth to a good child to be worthy of the spirit of heaven of your parents and ancestors. Many friends are in great pain because their children are disobedient. S

Teacher Qin Dongkui

Every couple must have children after getting married, which is the inheritance of a family. And you must give birth to a good child to be worthy of the spirit of heaven of your parents and ancestors.

Many friends are in great pain because their children are disobedient. So what method can we use to have a very filial child and a child who can contribute to society and the country?

1. If you want a child with very good behavior, then the couple should not speak badly first.

First, don’t talk badly, why? Because couples live together in the same room, only one family has children and parents, and only the couple lives in the same bed. You think he is redundant and speaks to him every day, but think about it, that won’t work. Then you will learn to have a child like this, and your family will not be harmonious. If you are not harmonious, you will always make divorces, which will make you angry. So we all must understand that this is very influential. So starting from having children, couples should not speak badly, and praise each other every day.

is like last week. When I was teaching this class there, I mentioned the relationship between husband and wife, and I said you want to see his strengths! I had a friend who told me that Teacher Qin had no advantages at all, and no matter how I thought about it, I had no advantages. I asked her, and I asked her, "Madam, do you have any advantages?" She said to Teacher Qin, I am the best at making money, and I am beautiful and capable, and I have thought a lot. I said yes, such a capable, smart, and talented lady, how could you choose a vulgar man who can achieve nothing or achieve nothing? Then you still have a problem with your brain? If you don’t have fever, you’re taking ecstasy at that time! Let’s think about it, so talented, how could you choose a husband with such no talent? Think about it. She said he had advantages before. I said that's fine, isn't that good? So sometimes we erase all the advantages of others. Nowadays, people have to forget. If you help him nine times, if you don’t help once, he will treat you as an enemy. So if you want a very good child, you will not speak bad words first and speak harshly.

2. I want my children to be kind-hearted and behave well. In addition to not speaking bad words and speaking sarcasticly, parents should also behave properly.

If you run around the dance hall every day, your child will definitely have ADHD. Nowadays, there are many children with ADHD, and parents all think it is strange, why do their children jump around every day? What's the reason? There are too many dance halls, and they are not doing well. Think about it, this is a real thing, it's no joke. So if you want this kind and very steady child, I advise everyone to do this.

I have encountered this kind of phenomenon, and I met a department-level cadre who has a daughter who is particularly beautiful and excellent, but has a disadvantage that she can't walk when she sees a man. This father asked me why? I said you don’t know that you are in pain when others prostitutes your daughter, but when you were young, you always prostitutes other people’s daughters. This is called cause and effect! So you will have such a child. God uses this method to take revenge on you. Why? Because our behavior is not correct, we will instill such information into our children. This is true, and this is not a joke.

So we want a filial child. I advise everyone not to do small movements, especially how hard a lady is during pregnancy. What small movements are you doing? It will harm your descendants. If you die, your ancestors will scold you. Why do you want such a bad and unworthy descendants to harm our family? ! Let’s think about it, if we want our children to become Confucius , we must have the same virtues and cultivation as Confucius’ parents, so that’s right. So I say that we modern people are too great and excellent. Why? As a woman, she dares to get a certificate to work as a wife without training. Do you think this is the reason? She gets a certificate to work as a mother before training? How terrible is you?Before becoming a wife and mother, we should continue to improve our own wisdom of sages after officially entering the role, and use the wisdom of sages to guide our lives.

3. Parents are upright in their hearts.

This kind of mind must be correct. Do you know why the divorce rate is so high now, and the mind is not correct. What kind of person does this woman look for to find her husband? The rich ones have houses and cars. It would be troublesome if you think about it, then this mentality is easy to get divorced! So what kind of man is looking for? Only child! Why? All her property belongs to me. Think about it, this mentality is not right, and it can easily lead to the failure of our marriage.

Fathers get along with each other, not only should they be kind to each other, but they should behave well, so that the child you want will be very smart and filial, and can contribute to society and the country. Look at the current children, three-year-olds sing love songs better than adults. Let’s think about it or not? He contradicted his parents at the age of three or four, oh! It's like confronting a child! If we think of children like us, then we will feel sad! We don’t understand, so if parents do not have training, they will be on duty with a certificate. I hope everyone will learn " Disciples Rules ". Let’s see, men will be husbands and women will be wives in the future. Otherwise, it would be terrible not to do this, which leads to the children we raise to be selfish and filial.

We should not blame the children blindly, why? The ancestors were not kind and did not know morality. Why? The ancestors did not educate their children well and did not understand the morality. You are like a very interesting thing that happened to my child’s kindergarten recently. The dean told me that Teacher Qin’s parents are so scary now! I said why? He said what ideas did this parent instill in his children now? He said that once he went to the class to see a child, and there was a child who couldn't even sit down. It was so uncomfortable! The teacher said why are you feeling uncomfortable? I said I had eaten too much and it was stuffed into my throat. Tell me why you eat so much? My parents told me at home that we paid so much money to the kindergarten. If you don’t eat, you won’t eat enough and eat enough. It’s delicious! So I can't sit down every time I come. Let’s think about how terrible this parent is to harm children, and they instill selfish thoughts in their children since childhood. We think it's ridiculous, but I feel sad when I hear it. These are all pillars of the country in the future. How can parents not get a certificate and harm their children like this? This is a kind of sorrow!