Recently, there have been frequent reports of physical conflicts between children on the Internet. The parents of the victim are eager to protect their children and fight with the other party’s children or parents.
On September 29, a 31-year-old adult man kicked a 7-year-old boy in a shopping mall in Zhuhai because the boy had just bullied his precious daughter.
On October 6, a woman in Xiaogan, Hubei was slapped by a man for friction between children. The woman's husband rushed over and beat the man with each other.
There are many such things in life. When parents face their children being bullied, they are often not calm enough and make excessive actions.
The child’s affairs should be solved by the child themselves, and parents should not come forward to "set them off". This practice has many harms.
First of all, if a child learns to suffer losses, he will find his parents. Don’t you know that parents can accompany their children for a while, but not for a lifetime. Without the umbrella of their parents, how can children find a rational way to deal with crises? So, in the long run, this is harming the child.
Secondly, it is not advisable to use violence to fight violence. Parents act voluntarily and fight, but their children also learn to use fights to solve problems. They will imitate their parents. When encountering unpleasant things, they will fight and fight with each other. What will happen to such a child in the future? It is terrible to think about it carefully!
Finally, if a child is not a heart or a bead in his palm, the original trivial matter may turn into war into a treasure under mutual understanding, but if the fight starts, it will probably be illegal.
When a child is bullied, the best way to test the quality of his parents. If he does not think about himself, he must also think about his children's future. Restraining impulses, maintaining rationality, and patiently solving problems is the best way.
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