Recently, a plane in Hangzhou has become a hot search. On this plane, a little girl cried all the way, jumping around the seat of the plane driving at high altitude and high speed, but the parents didn't control it and let her make a fuss. The passengers in the back row took a vi

Recently, a plane in Hangzhou has become a hot search.

On this plane, a little girl cried all the way, jumping around on the seat of the plane driving at high altitude and high speed, but the parents didn't control it and let her make a fuss. Passengers in the back row of

took a video, which caused widespread heated discussion as soon as it was posted.

Some netizens think:

Are there fewer situations in life? I was in a hot spring and was crying in the lounge. I was having a meal. The child was crying in the restaurant. I was watching a movie in the shop and cried in the cinema... The friend was so scared that he saw someone taking care of the children and took me to a faraway place for dinner.

Of course, some netizens believe that the meaning of posting

on the Internet is not to let everyone go online to expose this adult or child. This is not an isolated case. Just let the people who watch the news know that this is not a good phenomenon and must pay attention to it later.

There are many things like this in the video that children cry in public. When walking on the road, they often encounter children who are emotionally broken and crying and helpless parents.

Some parents think that their children are still young and crying is normal, and they will naturally get better when they grow up.

In fact, for children, 3 to 6 years old is a critical period for their personality formation. If their personality is not properly guided in their early years, then the child's personality development is likely to be biased.

Family education Pay attention to these three points

Crying is a manifestation of children's emotionality. Most of the children's crying is a reaction made by not being satisfied. Parents should grasp these three points when educating their children.

1 is not too arrogant

In family relationships, parents and children should grasp the standard of love when getting along with each other. Although the children seem to be young, they have strong observation skills and already know how to test their parents' bottom line.

The more parents compromise, the more obvious the excessive self-centered side of the child’s personality will be.

2 care more about the child

When the child is in infancy, the child's sense of security comes from his parents. The child loses his temper at you and cries. In fact, he wants you to go into his heart to solve the problem and gain a sense of security.

If parents always lack concern for their children, the children will show excessive sensitivity, introverted and cowardly personality.

3 Make the children correct evaluation

If parents always use the method of over-evaluating their children, then the children are prone to self-conceited personality. When children encounter setbacks and difficulties, they are more likely to show self-giving.

If parents often belittle or criticize their children, they will easily develop inferiority complex. Children will constantly doubt and deny themselves.

If the child always has emotional problems for no reason, or beats someone, and does not know the severity of the attack, it is useless for parents to comfort and reason, so you should pay attention to whether the child is and . Many emotional problems are related to tactile imbalance.

What is tactile?

Tactile sense refers to the feeling of nerve cells distributed throughout the body receiving temperature, humidity, pain, pressure and vibration from the outside world.

It has an important impact on children's emotions, sociality, security and character formation. It mainly has these three functions:

cognitive

The basic path of the world

Hightness is the basis for children's sensation, cognition, and motor development. It is the main sensory channel for children to obtain information in the early stages, and lays the foundation for other sensory channels to obtain information of other natures.

affects

Children's social interaction

Skin contact is a main way for children to interact with adults in the early stages of children. Infants and young children understand the care of their relatives through touch, and are touched or touched by others. This is an important way for children to interact with others.

safe

defense protection ability

children can avoid the harm of external objects based on tactile information, perform appropriate behaviors, and protect their own safety.

Children's physical development is also inseparable from touch. If you get more caress every day, your weight will increase quickly. Tactile stimulation can increase the immune function of the body's body's fluids and cells, and the immune system function will also be strengthened.

tactile dysfunction manifests

tactile dysfunction, divided into tactile sensitivity and tactile dullness.

Children with tactile sensitivity have weak adaptability to external stimuli, and their stubborn and familiar experiences are manifested as clingy, fear of strangers, dislike crowding, and lack of self-confidence. Reject new learning, dislike touching others, and prone to quarrels with others, tend to eat partially, bite your fingers, etc.

Children with dull sense of touch often lack self-awareness and cannot protect themselves. It will show slow reaction, inflexible movements, poor brain discrimination ability, clumsy pronunciation and small muscle movements.