The father said in this picture, "You spare me." I remembered that when I was tutoring my son for homework, I didn’t know how many times I grabbed my hair and said to him in pain, “Please, spare me.” ’s inner collapse index was about to collapse! Sometimes they even say, "I won't live anymore, I can't live anymore." People who have never tutored their children will never experience this inner torment. The words "a piece of cake", "sayed twice", "the child is still confused" in the passage of are simply what I feel every day. A simple application question, he just can't understand the meaning of the question. I didn't explain it twice, and it was common for five or six times, but the child still didn't understand it. At that time, his blood pressure was rubbing up, and he kept trying to lift his hand and hit him. Sometimes I really do it, but when I see the child’s pitiful look, I feel distressed. This kind of angry and distressed emotion is really a mess.
However, I have read a lot of articles about educating children recently. I often reflect on it myself. The child is still so young, and the so-called "piece of cake" knowledge we told him is brand new to him. He needs time to digest it and a lot of training to internalize it. If we were given a bunch of brand new knowledge, could we know it all at once? Thinking of this, I was much calmer. Tell yourself not to get angry, and you should help him find the problem. Is it because he can’t understand the meaning of the question, or is it because he doesn’t calculate seriously, or does he not know how to do this kind of question? Find the root cause of the problem and strengthen training. This is the key to solving the problem.
Then, “only by sitting in the mother’s position can you truly understand why your mother’s temper is not good.” mother tutoring homework is really a task that challenges the bottom line of inner emotions. Every time I get angry with my child because of tutoring homework and slam the table, his father will say, "Is it okay to be a little patient?" It was not until he participated in the tutoring that he realized that his desk was slapped more vigorously than me.
But, have we ever thought about the feelings of children? Calm down and reflect. When a child makes a mistake in his homework, he is afraid of being criticized by his parents. The parents scold him while explaining the questions. The child is worried that he is listening to you explaining the questions to him? Or are you worried about your own safety? The more children are afraid, the more they don’t understand, and the more parents are not able to explain, the more angry they get, which becomes a vicious cycle.
So the experience I have personally summarized is also something I suddenly wake up now. When tutoring children in the future, the more wrong they are, the more we should explain to them calmly, so that they can listen with peace of mind and understand as soon as possible. If you really can't control your emotions, you can go out and calm down first, and then talk about it.
From kindergarten to the third grade, I have also tutored the second young master for five or six years. I have beaten, scolded, cried, and laughed. Now thinking about it, I am also constantly learning while accompanying my children to learn. It’s better to say that it’s me who is educating me than to say that it’s me who is educating me.
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Have you ever had any moments of tutoring homework crash? Welcome to talk about your feelings or opinions in the comment area.
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